| The owners or admin of this app should work on the UI and Ux. SMS messages shouldn't be seen by everyone even if it's anonymously sent. There are more flaws in the UI and Ux that needs to be fixed | 2026-02-13 08:57:18 | |
| Who's single? Let's date. No time for talking stage
M here | 2026-02-08 23:12:32 | |
| Make una join gimme
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| Hope this place isnt like jodel | 2026-02-07 19:52:32 | |
| Anonymous
My husband is asking for a divorce because he says he only married me for intimacy. We got married three months ago.
His excuse is that during the relationship, I didn’t allow him to have intimacy with me, and now that he has, he says he’s done with the marriage 😭 | 2026-01-28 16:43:09 | |
| Guys I’m 19years old and I need a job, I just completed a senior high school | 2026-01-24 10:51:34 | |
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| Want a pretty girl to spend time with | 2026-01-15 08:58:10 | |
| Not here to play games just looking for genuine connection, good conversation, and real love. If you’re kind, honest, and know what you want, my DMs are open
Note am around East legon hills | 2026-01-15 06:59:10 | |
| So I’m in need of financial help
Anyone to please help me out
Please | 2026-01-15 06:55:51 | |
| I want a serious relationship. Any female here single and available?
Serious ladies only! | 2026-01-12 19:47:03 | |
| I know my story might sound a bit strange however, I would like to appeal for advice but not insult. The issue is that, we have been married for 6 years and we have two children. To be honest, my husband and I, are okay financially, emotionally and in everything.In fact, I am a very happy wife and so are our kids.
Sel, the only challenge I have now is that, my husband is beginning to do well in business, and more money is coming. I am happy but the truth is that, deep down my heart I don't want him to get more money. My simple reason is that, if more money start coming he will start womanizing. More money, more women. I am therefore trying to sabotage, some of his businesses in order to prevent him from doing well. Is that bad because, we are very happy with our life now and don't want any issue with any lady!!!
Anonymous Lady | 2026-01-11 12:05:56 | |
| Any cute slim lady down for friends with benefits?
Cash involved | 2026-01-11 10:01:14 | |
| Any lady here for friends with benefits? | 2026-01-11 09:49:07 | |
| Bored and Lonely | 2026-01-11 09:41:06 | |
| Any hooks around | 2026-01-10 21:28:08 | |
| Do you want a boyfriend? Tell me your spec or kinda guy you want. | 2026-01-10 11:07:26 | |
| Anyone around Ablekuma, Awoshie, Lapaz or Circle and has Absa bank account plus passport and Ghana card and should link up for some FX job payment is 800 Cedis | 2026-01-10 11:04:56 | |
| Male here
Need a serious relationship | 2026-01-10 07:51:57 | |
| Be happy Always | 2026-01-09 16:34:18 | |
| I’m a m here , I need a serious relationship | 2026-01-09 13:20:48 | |
| Any cute lady down for a serious relationship?
Chat id: GHNMK53V8MK946534 | 2026-01-09 06:53:36 | |
| How Good is this app ?🤨 | 2026-01-03 22:21:16 | |
| Graphic designer here!!! | 2026-01-03 21:15:19 | |
| So help me God | 2026-01-03 15:57:17 | |
| New on this app and I’m confuse on how to use it😑 | 2026-01-03 12:11:28 | |
| I never planned to say this out loud… but here I am.
Last year, I lost everything that made me feel like a man.
My job.
My savings.
Even the respect of people who once called me “boss”.
Every morning, I still wore my shoes and stepped out like I was going somewhere important. The truth? I just didn’t want my neighbors to know I had nowhere to go.
Some days I sat at Kaneshie for hours, not because I had business there, but because it was easier to pretend than to explain.
I smiled in public.
I laughed in group chats.
But at night, I cried quietly so nobody would hear.
I wanted to talk.
But who do you talk to when everyone expects you to be “strong”?
Today, I’m not fully okay.
But I’m still here.
And for the first time, I’m saying it without shame.
If you’re reading this and you feel alone, you’re not weak.
You’re human.
Sometimes, all we need is a safe place to talk… even if nobody knows our name. | 2026-01-03 10:21:50 | |
| I need a job please. | 2025-12-31 18:38:09 | |
| Are there any lounges in Accra where you go to meet matured women? | 2025-12-31 14:26:18 | |
| Are there real females here?
Say hi | 2025-12-31 13:56:47 | |
| Any Female available let’s do bad things together at a fee | 2025-12-31 13:35:59 | |
| I’m a student and need help in paying my fees . On today 31st as the year ends . Please help me if you have the means | 2025-12-31 13:12:19 | |
| My husband has been using my car for Uber/YANGO ever since he lost his job.
We had an argument last week, and in the heat of the moment I said something I truly regret, I told him that he didn't have a job and that he was only working because he used my car. I didn't mean it, I was just angry.
Since that day, Wednesday of last week, he packed up and left home. I haven't seen him since. The only contact he makes is sending money for our two children. I've searched everywhere for him, and even went to his mother's house, but she said she hasn't seen him either.
I love my husband dearly and I don't want to lose him over a careless statement I made out of frustration. I'm really in pain and I need advice... What do I do? | 2025-12-31 12:03:45 | |
| It's very hard to see if you have message from someone on here. | 2025-12-31 11:50:36 | |
| She said I'm ugly and I told her I didn't create myself 😌😌 | 2025-12-31 10:57:54 | |
| I'm broke that I didn't get sex the whole year.
Clean sheet last and this year. | 2025-12-31 07:01:38 | |
| Just looking for an introverted f to get naughty with online,it'll be just me and you🙂 | 2025-12-30 18:02:51 | |
| Who wanna be friends around kasoa | 2025-12-30 17:20:45 | |
| I'm lonely | 2025-12-30 15:55:50 | |
| New here M | 2025-12-30 13:59:00 | |
| Hi fellas
I’m new here
Anyone to show me around
Just wanna make new and genuine friends please | 2025-12-30 13:54:55 | |
| 2025 has been really tough for me. Just hoping 2026 will be better for man. | 2025-12-30 11:55:39 | |
| Who has an old phone and can give it out?? I can even work for it please
🙏🏻 | 2025-12-30 07:58:14 | |
| I don't know why but I really like older women and I feel shy to approach them. | 2025-12-30 07:19:14 | |
| How I got to know that I am into guys
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Do u wana know? | 2025-12-29 14:20:49 | |
| Any lady wonna vibe?
Bored male here | 2025-12-29 13:43:04 | |
| The man grew angry.
“How can life be so unfair?” he shouted.
“I’ve been believing! I’ve been hoping! I’ve been speaking it into existence!”
But belief without sacrifice back empty.
One night, starving and desperate, he went to the woman’s garden.
It was full. Not overflowing but alive.
He whispered,
“You’re lucky.”
She looked at his empty cup and said quietly,
“Luck is when effort meets time.”
Here is the truth that breaks people when they finally see it:
Many want interest on an investment they never made.
They give attention, but expect loyalty.
They give words, but expect results.
They give minutes, but demand lifetime rewards.
They give little, yet feel entitled to everything.
And when life doesn’t deliver, they call it betrayal.
Life is not cruel.
Life is precise.
It returns exactly what was planted
not what was wished for,
not what was spoken loudly,
but what was paid for in effort, consistency, and sacrifice.
If you keep giving crumbs,
don’t curse the universe. | 2025-12-28 20:24:40 | |
| The Price of a Seed
There was a man in the village who owned a vast field, but he never planted.
Instead, he walked to the river every morning with a single cup.
He would scoop a little water, hold it up to the sky, and say, “One day, this cup will overflow into a flood.”
People laughed at him.
One day, a farmer go by and asked,
“Why don’t you plant seeds? Your land is rich.”
The man replied,
“Seeds are expensive. Effort is tiring. I prefer miracles.”
So he gave the earth nothing
no seed,
no sweat,
no patience
yet every night he knelt and prayed for a harvest so big it would silence the world.
Across the village lived a woman with a small garden behind her hut.
The soil was rocky. The sun was harsh. Her seeds were few.
Still, every morning, she bent down and planted one seed at a time.
Some days, birds ate them.
Some days, nothing grew.
Some days, she cried while watering dry ground.
She never complained loudly.
She never announced her effort. | 2025-12-28 20:20:03 | |
| He sat there daily for years.
No one noticed.
Until someone said,
“You saved my life once.”
Some impact waits for its moment.
Life is not about others but you
I have learnt that u don’t do things because people are doing it.. you don’t stop what makes you happy because of what people think …
Life is that simple.. stay in you lane and be happy | 2025-12-28 19:36:01 | |
| I am new here can someone show me around | 2025-12-27 19:02:02 | |
| Need someone to come around so we watch movies together and see where it goes from there | 2025-12-27 18:56:25 | |
| Hi everyone, who's also new here? | 2025-12-26 17:48:25 | |
| Any female wants a cute guy here, you could be a lesbian | 2025-12-26 08:44:45 | |
| I’m not happy.
Abena broke my heart! END | 2025-12-25 20:17:33 | |
| I need love , a matured man I mean | 2025-12-25 13:03:31 | |
| To everyone using Hide & Gist, thank you for being part of our growing community 🤍
This season reminds us of love, kindness, laughter, and connection the same values that bring us together here every day.
May your Christmas be filled with peace, genuine joy, meaningful conversations, and moments worth remembering. As we celebrate, may the coming year bring you growth, safety, and even more reasons to smile.
Thank you for trusting us. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being you.
✨ Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year! ✨
#MerryChristmas #HideAndGist #SeasonOfLove #Joy #Peace #Community #ChristmasVibes #Grateful 🎅🏽🎄 | 2025-12-25 10:17:29 | |
| So will I get a woman to call my own I have been single for long oo and we getting into another year smh | 2025-12-25 02:27:21 | |
| Hi.
Hope y'all doing good 😊 | 2025-12-25 02:10:19 | |
| Ain’t easy but everyday is a blessing on its own | 2025-12-24 18:24:41 | |
| I'm new here..... I hope to enjoy my stay here | 2025-12-24 09:17:26 | |
| Every Sunday, she set an extra plate.
Her husband is not more , three years ago.
“Why do you do this?” they asked.
“So my heart doesn’t forget how to love.” | 2025-12-23 22:10:28 | |
| Hot deals on the hand, laptops and accessories 💯 | 2025-12-23 07:16:01 | |
| Hi I am barikisu 26 years old and I am new here 🥰 I saw the post on Jodel and decided to download it please I sell cake and pastries | 2025-12-22 13:53:56 | |
| I'm a guy of 25 years old.I behave normally like how every guy should behave but I've never had feelings for ladies.
I feel I won't be able to get married in the future cuz charlie I don't have feelings for ladies even after several attempts of trying to catch feelings for them.
Hmmm I'm suffering oo charlie | 2025-12-22 13:31:55 | |
| I sincerely need a female opinion on a pressing matter bothering me | 2025-12-22 11:08:44 | |
| How can you be there and be thinking bad… yes life is 50/50 but with God it a 100 over nothing …
I think we just need to do right with God and live out life’s without regrets | 2025-12-21 16:43:44 | |
| Why do door handles only grab your clothes when you're angry?😭 | 2025-12-20 07:31:48 | |
| Hi, I'm new here, anyone here with me? | 2025-12-19 19:54:20 | |
| Hi
new here | 2025-12-19 19:30:29 | |
| New here🙌🏽
Welcome me 😅😅 | 2025-12-18 23:58:20 | |
| So I was checking this app out .. it can be something crazy in Ghana and beyond oooo.. the developers try … | 2025-12-18 23:44:16 | |
| Hi friends.
We all won’t be here by 2100. Leave a legacy. Cheers 🥂 | 2025-12-05 21:00:02 | |
| So today I met Judith | 2025-11-29 19:32:10 | |
| I never planned for things to unfold the way they did. It started with Ama funny, warm, and always checking up on me. Our connection grew naturally, and one thing led to another. We became close… closer than friends normally should.
Then there was Rita. She came into my life during a time I was confused about everything work, relationships, myself. She offered comfort, laughter, and peace. I didn’t realize how blurred the lines were becoming until we crossed them.
And finally, there was Sena smart, confident, the kind of woman who made conversations feel like home. Our bond deepened faster than I expected, and before long, I found myself in the same situation again.
Three friends. Three connections. Three different stories… and none of them knew about the others.
I told myself I had it under control. I told myself nobody would ever find out. But secrets have a way of exposing themselves especially when the truth is heavy.
And eventually… the truth started knocking. | 2025-11-23 13:48:27 | |
| Things are not going well but this too shall pass | 2025-11-17 18:43:32 | |
| Love lives here | 2025-11-14 17:32:01 | |
| I have lost my innocence, and I wish I hadn’t.
I no longer see the world through the rosy lens I had as a child.
To me, love is nothing more than a fool's fantasy.
My story begins on an anonymous app similar to this one. I was drawn to the app because of the interesting stories posted daily, although that’s no longer the case.
Anyway, I met a guy on there, and we really hit it off. The vibe was good and pure; we realized we had a lot in common, and most importantly, we both had some fantasies to check off our to-do lists.
I used to be a bit of a closet pervert, while he was one of those outgoing people who exuded sexual charm. To be honest, I was also a virgin at that time, but I acted with the bravado that all inexperienced individuals do, as if I had slept with dozens of girls 🤭.
So it was during one of those chats that he asked if I wanted to try a 3some(MFM).I quickly agreed😂, and he arranged the time, date, and location for us to meet. I was really hyped up about it..... | 2025-09-28 21:47:25 | |
| I don’t even know how to begin this, but I need to be honest with myself. There’s something I’ve been carrying in my heart, and it’s starting to weigh me down. The truth is—I like my friend’s boyfriend. Just writing that feels so wrong, but I can’t deny it anymore.
When I see him, I can’t help but feel a pull toward him. It’s not just that he’s attractive, but the way he speaks, the way he carries himself, and how he makes people feel comfortable. I notice every detail, even when I pretend not to. And when he’s around, I find myself smiling more than I should, wishing he would look at me in a way that he only looks at her.What makes this worse is that it isn’t only about feelings. I want him—physically too. Sometimes my mind drifts to places it shouldn’t, imagining what it would be like to be close to him, to sleep with him. The thought excites me, but at the same time it fills me with guilt. Because no matter how strong this attraction is, I know it would break my bestfriend | 2025-09-27 14:49:49 | |
| Cheers to another wonderful day to be world's greatest 🎊 🙌🏾 | 2025-09-15 13:26:59 | |
| Be a go getter, grab the opportunity and utilise it utmostly to the max. Have a good day | 2025-09-12 09:16:10 | |
| A brand new day to be world's greatest 🎊🙌🏾🕺🏽 | 2025-09-11 11:04:49 | |
| Are you asleep | 2025-09-07 01:31:55 | |
| Sometimes, the person God has written into your story doesn’t arrive in the way you expect. I never imagined that the woman I call my wife today would come into my life the way she did.
Back then, I was with her friend… but her friend wasn’t being faithful. She was caught up in things that could have broken me completely. But this woman—my wife today—was the one who stood for me. She told her friend, “Stop this, or I will tell him the truth. He doesn’t deserve this.”
That was the first time I truly saw her heart. Not because she was trying to win me, but because she believed I deserved honesty. She chose truth over silence, respect over convenience, and my peace over her friendship.We started talking, slowly. No games, no pretending—just real conversations. And as the days passed, I realized she wasn’t just someone who stood up for me… she was the one my heart had been searching for all along. | 2025-09-04 20:56:37 | |
| How's your day going | 2025-09-04 12:39:39 | |
| I want to gist about someone | 2025-09-03 06:15:40 | |
| “The Secret That Went Viral”
Ama was in her second year at the University of Ghana. She wasn’t the loud type, but she had this charm that drew people in—especially the guys. On campus, people often said, “Ama doesn’t chase attention, attention chases her.”
One evening after lectures, Ama decided to chill with some friends at Akuafo Hall. They were gisting, playing Afrobeats on someone’s small speaker, and scrolling through social media. Out of nowhere, one of her friends pulled out her phone and said:
“Ei, Ama, is this not you?”
On her screen was a private Snapchat video—Ama, sitting on someone’s lap in a hostel room, laughing and whispering into his ear. The guy was a popular final-year student known for dating different girls.
At first, Ama froze. Her heart pounded so loud she could hardly hear her friends teasing. She thought it was just a private moment, nothing deep. But somehow, that short clip had found its way into the group chats of nearly every student on campus. | 2025-09-02 21:41:32 | |
| Let's all have a wonderful day today, at the end of the day, let's not forget to give God the glory for His Mercies endures forever ❤️ | 2025-09-01 06:47:31 | |
| A Good counselor is better than money ..
True or false | 2025-08-28 18:17:01 | |
| I am a 34-year-old woman who got married in April this year. My husband and I were in a relationship for four years before marriage. During our dating period, he was very kind, loving, and affectionate. He struggled with recurring headaches, and I stood by him, helping him seek solutions. Even when his extended family complained that he wasn’t kind to them, I made sure to support them financially and encouraged him to show them love.
Our courtship was beautiful, and he never showed the behavior I am now experiencing. But right after our glorious wedding—which many admired—things began to change drastically. My husband no longer shows the love and affection he once did. Simple conversations now turn into anger, insults, or complete silence from him.
I also noticed he receives random calls, deletes his call logs and messages, and hides his communications. Eventually, I found out he has been deeply involved with a woman at his workplace, with late-night calls and emotional attachment. | 2025-08-26 19:01:13 | |
| He was a sitting MP, respected in public, but behind closed doors he had another face. When I asked for his help to secure a job, he made it clear: “If you want my support, you know what to do.” I didn’t argue. I agreed.
He rented a place for me, gave me money, and expected me to always be available when he came around. But I had my own plan. Each time he visited, I served him drinks quietly mixed with sleeping pills. When he got weak and drowsy, I would work on him just enough for him to release and believe I had given him what he wanted.
It went on for months. I enjoyed his money, lived in comfort, and watched him fall deeper into the game. Eventually, he came through with the promise — the job was mine. By then, I had already gotten what I needed, and he never realized how much control I actually had over him. I would put the rest of what happened under the post when close from the job my Nppp MP has got 🤣 smart doesn't mean open your legs | 2025-08-25 08:01:14 | |
| I never thought I’d be this kind of woman, but life has a way of pushing you into corners. My name doesn’t matter, but what matters is that I grew up with nothing. After my father died, I became the one responsible for my siblings. Jobs are scarce, and even when I tried to work, the money wasn’t enough to put food on the table.
That’s when I started sleeping with men for money. At first, it was just one time—I told myself it was a desperate decision, that I’d never do it again. But the money came so easily. School fees, rent, my siblings’ needs—all covered in a single night. It became a cycle.
I know people call it prostitution, but for me, it feels more like survival. I don’t enjoy it. Sometimes I cry afterward, wondering if God still sees me as His daughter. Other times, I numb myself and pretend I’m strong.
I do it because it keeps my family alive. But deep inside, I pray for a day when I won’t have to sell my body to survive. Until then, this is my secret, my shame, and my survival | 2025-08-24 20:55:11 | |
| My Confession.
I’ve been serving as a drummer at Ligh,... Church, but my life has been far from holy.
Behind the beats, I was living in sin.
I slept with one soprano after choir rehearsal.
I slept with two altos during programs we travelled for.
I slept with the choir leader, thinking I was in love.
I slept with ushers who later joined the choir.
I slept with almost every corner of the choir stand, telling myself no one would ever know.
Every Sunday I hit the drums like nothing was wrong, but deep inside I was drowning in guilt.
I kept saying “God forgive me” while still going back.
Now I can’t hide anymore — I’ve messed up, I’ve hurt people, and I need forgiveness. | 2025-08-23 10:42:31 | |
| Confession
I am jealous of my younger sister. Her life is going so perfect and mad. I am stuck at home with three kids, three different fathers. Every time the child is born, these guys just leave me. I don't know what I did to deserve this. My little sister is married, educated, and she now expecting 8 months pregnant. She asked me to come help her around the house because she is heavily pregnant and can't do anything. This other day, I saw the husband checking me out. I think he is now thirsty, and I am thinking of seducing him, and I don't care if she catches us. I actually want her to find out so that she can be as miserable as I am. | 2025-08-22 18:57:51 | |
| Confession
Last weekend, my friends pressured me into trying something I didn’t really want to—let’s just say it was weed. I gave in because I didn’t want to look weak in front of them. Now I feel guilty and anxious, like I’ve betrayed myself, | 2025-08-22 13:43:12 | |
| Confession – Relationship Jealousy
"Hey, I’m Abena. My boyfriend—let’s call him Kwaku—has been talking a lot to a new colleague at work, and I can’t stop feeling jealous. I keep imagining the worst, and it’s exhausting. I don’t know if I’m overreacting, but I can’t control these thoughts, and it’s driving me crazy." | 2025-08-22 13:41:36 | |
| I'm in love with my boss 😍...and it's true feelings..how do I tell him?
Can see he has no one but fear grab me ..I want him too | 2025-08-22 09:35:46 | |
| Is it a crime to tell a guy you love him ..if you do ? I believe it's not cos you can't watch him slip off to another woman 😉
What's your opinion guys? | 2025-08-22 09:32:32 | |
| Confession – Pregnancy Worries
"Hi, I’m Ama. I had unprotected sex a few weeks ago with—let’s call him Kojo—and now I’m worried I might be pregnant. I haven’t told anyone yet, not even my sister. Every little symptom makes me panic, and I feel like I’m carrying this fear alone. I just needed to share it somewhere." | 2025-08-22 08:38:03 | |
| Confession:
"Hey, I’ve been holding this in for a while, and I just need to say it. Lately, I’ve been feeling really tired and anxious, and I think it’s because I’ve been hiding a secret from my partner. I kissed someone at a party, and now I can’t stop worrying that it might have consequences. I don’t know how to deal with these feelings or whether I should tell them. I feel guilty and scared at the same time, and I just needed to get this off my chest." | 2025-08-22 08:31:17 | |
| Confession:
"Hey, I need to get this off my chest because I’ve been really anxious. Last week, I had unprotected sex, and since then I’ve noticed something strange—my clitoris feels like it’s shrinking or disappearing. I was supposed to see a doctor today, but my period just started, and now I feel even more uneasy. I don’t know if this is normal, and I’m really hoping everything is okay. I just need some reassurance. | 2025-08-22 07:53:27 | |
| **A Facebook Love Story**
Maya never expected love to slip quietly into her life through a blue notification icon. She had just moved to a new city, far from friends and family, and often spent her evenings scrolling through Facebook to feel connected.
One night, she posted a picture of the city skyline at dusk. Among the usual “likes,” she noticed a comment from someone she didn’t recognize:
*“Best view in town—especially from the east side. Welcome to the city!”*
His name was Daniel. They had a single mutual friend, an old classmate she hadn’t spoken to in years. Curious, she clicked his profile. His posts were full of humor, music, and the same skyline—taken from different angles.
Over the next few weeks, comments turned into messages. Messages turned into late-night chats. They laughed over childhood stories, confessed fears, and shared playlists. Facebook became their secret bridge—something simple, yet sacred.
Eventually, Daniel wrote: *“We’ve been talking for months. | 2025-08-20 16:53:15 | |
| I am just unlucky with the girls here. I met this fine girl here. Just my spec. We spoke for a while and moved to Snapchat. Got to know each other more.
Once I like you, I try to make you happy. That's just me. So out of goodwill, I asked her what she wants when I come around. She said a phone. I said oh no problem. I can get her iPhone 11 when coming. This girl said her friend said she should bring 2800 for iPhone 11 so I should send her the money for her to get it. I told her there's no rush. I'll be around soon and I'll be getting her one myself when I come. She said okay. Two days later, she texted that she has 1500 and so l should send the 1300 to top up and get the phone. I asked her why the rush? I've been sending her coins from time to time but now it's like she just wants to take advantage. She also does not want to wait for when I come. | 2025-08-20 09:43:12 | |
| Title: The Price of Silk and Sand
Elena grew up in the narrow streets of Baguio, where mist clung to the hills and the mornings smelled like brewed coffee and fresh pine. Her mother ran a small stall that sold woven fabrics and trinkets to tourists. Life was simple, and dreams were luxuries they couldn't afford.
But Elena was different. She always dreamed big.
At 25, Elena was beautiful in that effortless way that made people stop mid-sentence. She worked as a receptionist in a downtown law firm, balancing bills and her mother's medication. She had no time for fantasies—until she met David and Rafael, both of whom saw something different in her.
David was the kind of man who never needed to ask twice. His father owned hotels from Manila to Macau, and his idea of romance was a weekend trip to Singapore or a designer handbag “just because.” He was gentle, well-spoken, and his money opened every door. He liked the way Elena walked, talked, and listened. | 2025-08-19 17:24:19 | |
| Then we have work to do,” Afi said.
She raised her granddaughter while Esi studied.
Rocked the baby in one arm, sewed with the other.
Esi became a midwife and opened a clinic for teen mothers.
Yaw barely spoke.
He drew pictures on scrap paper. His teachers said he was behind.
Afi showed up at school and sat beside him.
“You don’t have to speak,” she whispered. “Just show them what’s in your heart.”
She bought him crayons instead of dinner that week.
Years later, his paintings hung in galleries.
He painted her hands in every piece.
They called her poor.
Ordinary.
Soft.
But Afi built three futures with nothing but strength, prayer, and love that never asked for anything back.
On her 60th birthday, her children brought her a house.
Kojo said, “You gave us life.”
Esi said, “You gave us courage.”
Yaw painted her on the wall—head high, eyes proud, holding the world in her arms.
But Afi just smiled and said,
“I gave you love. You built the rest.”
A mother's love doesn't need applause. | 2025-08-18 13:54:07 | |
| Title: A Mother Named Afi
Afi was only nineteen when she became a mother.
Kojo came into the world screaming, like he knew life wouldn’t be easy.
Two years later came Esi, full of fire.
And then Yaw—quiet, always watching.
Three children.
No husband.
No help.
Just Afi, her faith, and two hands that refused to stop working.
She cleaned homes by day, sewed torn clothes at night.
Every cedi she earned went to food, school fees, and shoes two sizes too small.
But her children?
They never went hungry.
Never missed a class.
Never felt unloved.
Kojo tried to drop out at 16.
Afi didn’t shout.
She gave him a needle and said,
“Sew one line.”
He pricked his finger, groaned.
“This,” she told him, “is what life feels like when you quit. You bleed, and the work remains undone.”
He never brought up quitting again.
Esi got pregnant at 17.
She cried. Said she’d ruined everything.
Afi didn’t scream.
She made hot cocoa and asked,
“Do you still want to be a doctor?”
Esi nodded, ashamed. | 2025-08-18 13:52:19 | |
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| At the end of the day, everything will work out for our good. | 2025-07-30 10:56:15 | |
| I’m currently in a relationship with someone who has a baby mama… and the truth is, she’s still very much in the picture.
From the beginning, he told me they weren’t together anymore, that she disrespects him and doesn’t treat him well. That’s the story I’ve held onto. We’ve been dating for about three months now, and if I say he doesn’t give me attention, I’d be lying. We talk every day. He checks on me, he makes me laugh, and honestly, he makes me feel happy.
But deep down, something doesn’t sit right.
He told me she no longer lives with him. Yet, today during a normal conversation, he casually mentioned that he had asked his baby mama to do something for him. Just like that.
My heart paused for a second.
If you’ve truly ended things with someone, why are they still that involved in your life?
I confronted him about it, and his only explanation was, “We’re not together… she just doesn’t respect me.” And when I told him I was thinking of ending things, he immediately said no, he doesn’t want us to break up. So now I’m torn. Do I stay because he makes me feel loved and wanted? Or do I leave before I find myself stuck in a triangle where I’ll never be the priority? Because honestly… I’m starting to wonder if I ever was. | 2025-07-30 10:47:53 | |
| Good afternoon, everyone! I wanted to ask for some advice—how do I handle the situation
My name is Becky, and I'm 22 years old. For the past three years, I've been living with my aunt. I'm currently in school, and my aunt’s husband is really nice to me. However, he's hardly ever around. He's always working, and his trips for work can last anywhere from a year to even two years.
My aunt never complains, though. I dont have a mother anymore, and my father doesnt want anything to do with me. He still ignores me. 😢💔
My aunt's husband has been away for a year, and during that time, my aunt had a baby. The baby isnt his, and he doesnt know.
I'm the only one who knows the truth. She begged me to keep it a secret for a whole year. Now, in two weeks, her husband will return, and my aunt is asking me to lie. 😱😱
She wants me to say that the baby is mine and that the father left me. She has been giving me money every morning to help me, and I really care for her because she has always taken good care of me. 🙄🙄
I get everything I need. I amm not sure if I should say yes to her or not. 😟💭
Any thoughts or suggestions would be greatly appreciated! | 2025-07-30 10:46:32 | |
| My ex-fiancé, who left me at the altar, was getting married to my best friend of 10 years, who had also been my maid of honor. When I first heard the news, things weren’t good between me and my best friend. After my ex-fiancé left me at the altar, she stood by me. She made sure I ate, cried with me, and stayed by my side for weeks. She told me he was an a**s hole and I deserved better. A couple of months after he left me, she started getting distant. She stopped picking up my calls and whenever I try to meet, she'll give me one reason or the other.
I kept to reaching out and she kept pulling away for weeks. It got to a time when I stopped trying altogether, I was still hùrttìng anyways trying to heal so I just decided to focus on myself and my wellbeing. I remember texting her and asking her why she had gone so distant. This time she texted back that she had her own problems, she was dealing with and I should stop making everything about myself. I stopped trying after that. I was left at the altar in March and in July, I was closer to one of my friends, he had always been interested in me but I was already in this serious relationship before he told me about his feeling and after my ex-fiancé left, he was there for me. I was not ready for another relationship at all but he was patient. I started developing feelings for him, some way in July and we officially started dated in October last year. I had known him all my life, so I felt simply and up until today is the best man I've ever been with. With my ex-fiance, I was marrying him because we had spent so many years together. He cheated on me several times and in a way I knew I was just settling for him. when he left me at the altar, I thought it was the worst thing that has ever happened to me. But now I see it as a blessing because this man treats me 100 times bette than my ex ever did. Now in January this year, I met my ex-fiancé's sister who told me his brother was getting married again.
I just greeted this woman as I was just passing by but I didn't know why she told me. she told me she never wanted me to hear it from someone else, his brother was getting married to my best friend. That was the only part that shocked me. she said she should have told me earlier but because I was grieving, she didn't want to make my situation worse. She said my best friend has been visiting their brother alone even when we were dating. She has asked her brother if something more was going on between them and he said NO but a few days before our marriage ceremony she caught her leaving his house very late at night, but she didn't want to cause confusion. That is why she didn't tell me anything, she told me they were getting married in that same January this year.
I just nodded and walked past her. I was happy now and this was all in my past, I really felt betrayed by my friend but I finally understood why she had gone distant. I didn't even tell anyone this news, I just moved on with my life. Just 2weeks ago, I received a long text from my friend, she was informing me of her marriage with my ex-fiance. She said, after he left me at the altar, she didn't know how it happened but they fell in love with each other and are getting married, she wants to tell me before I hear it elsewhere. She added that she's sorry, if I felt betrayed blah blah blah blah blah. I just b|ock her number after reading the message. I was in a good place in my life and I didn't want any drama. They were supposed to get married February and guess what? he left her at the altar Last week, Sunday, I was in the house when I heard a knock on my door. It was Her, heavily pregnant! immediately she saw me, she broke into tears asking me if I heard the news? The only thing I said to her was, what are you doing here? She started crying saying that she should have learnt from what happened to me. That she has not heard from him, since, he left her on their wedding day. She said she thought her own will be different. She was still talking when I told her to shut up and leave my house. Like what does she want me to say or do for her? She started crying again saying she couldn't believe I will turn my back on her when she needed me the most. She said she was there for me when I was going through the same thing.
I asked her if she thought i was a fool? Did she think I didn't know you were seeing each other behind my back when we were still dating? she said she has missed me and what we have. She said I shouldn't let a man destroy our friendship. I warned her about contacting me again I went inside my house locked my door. some of our friends have actually reached out me. Asking me to forgive her since we've been friends for years and she has regretted what she did but I kept saying, NO! I don't want to have anything to do it her. AM I the a$$ hole for refusing to forgive her? Please drop your opinion in the comment section. | 2025-07-30 10:43:58 | |
| Good morning my neighbours
Had breakfast already? | 2025-07-30 08:59:34 | |
| I’m currently six months pregnant with our first child. The pregnancy has been okay, but not without its own struggles.
Around one and a half months in, I started experiencing terrible morning sickness. I’d wake up nauseous and weak, so I asked my husband if he could make me a slice of bread when he’s making his breakfast, just something to help settle my stomach. That turned into him preparing breakfast for me every morning, and every few days he’d even make fresh juice.
At the same time, I developed a strong aversion to food. I couldn’t coo, just the smell alone made me feel like vomiting. So my husband started making dinner as well. For the past four and a half months, he’s handled almost all our meals.
Now here’s the issue…
We had a small argument recently, and in the middle of it, he said something that really shocked me: He said no other man would be doing what he’s doing. That what he does for me isn’t normal, and I should be extremely grateful because he’s going above and beyond.
Yes, I appreciate him. I’ve thanked him several times. But I couldn’t help but feel hurt by that comment. Am I wrong for feeling that this is actually the bare minimum? After all, I’m the one carrying our baby. I’m still working full time, I still do most of the cleaning, and I’m the one doing all the mental and emotional work, planning for the baby, researching, managing hospital appointments, buying things little by little…
Is it so unusual for a Ghanaian husband to cook for his pregnant wife? Or is he just not used to being part of a true partnership?
Now that I’m starting to feel a bit better, I’ve gone back to cooking sometimes. But that comment still lingers in my mind.
Please, I really want to know...Is he right? Are there really not many men out there who help like this? Or is this what love and teamwork is supposed to look like in marriage? | 2025-07-23 06:34:43 | |
| I was in a relationship with a lady who was studying nursing at the time. Things were great initially, but our relationship slowed down, and I later discovered she had reconnected with her ex through the person I got to know her.
Here's where I'd like to hear your fans' views: I spoke with my girlfriend on a Monday, and she seemed fine. The next day which happens to by Tuesday, I received a call from a guy she had previously introduced as her brother. He told me that my girlfriend had been hospitalized and urgently needed blood. They had tried to find a donor but were unsuccessful, and the hospital was willing to provide the blood for a fee of which I can't recall the exact amount and therefore they needed my assistance of which he said it indirectly. I was not having momo at the moment and also I wasn't closer to any momo vendor so a lot came into my mind, fortunately for me the hospital of which I was told by her brother that she has been admitted, my brother-friend wife works at the hospital as a nurse. I decided to reach out to my friend, whose wife worked as a nurse at the hospital where my girlfriend was supposedly admitted. I called my friend to seek his permission to involve his wife in the matter, and he gave me the go-ahead. I then called his wife, explaining the situation, and asked if she could assist or stand in for me in getting the blood. I promised to reimburse her once I got home. She agreed to it and promise to take good care of my lady (infact she was talking of a vvip treatment) so I was a bit relief. So I gave her my girlfriend name and even sent her my lady picture and also gave her my lady brother's contact to her, I then called my lady brother and inform him about the situation that now they can now get access for the blood because I know a nurse at the hospital and she has assured me of that so he should called the nurse for assistance of which I gave him the nurse contact. My friend wife called him to introduce herself as the nurse and asked of his whereabouts, he told her that he was coming to the hospital and that was all.
However, when my friend's wife searched the emergency ward and the hospital's records, she couldn't find anyone with my girlfriend's name. She even tried contacting my girlfriend's "brother" to clarify, but he stopped responding to her calls so she called me back to tell me what was going on. I also tried calling my lady brother and my lady several times but they didn't answer my calls or reply them back. I called the next day no one answered. So days later,
I called my lady , she answered and asked me to call my friend's wife to bring her phone, so we could speak through my friend's wife's phone. She claimed her phone wasn't working properly and her brother wasn't around, since I had asked my friend's wife to stand in for me to assist with anything. I was taken aback by this request, considering what my friend's wife had already told me.
That's when my girlfriend confronted me about what her brother had told her - that I thought she was faking her illness to get money from me. I explained that I was just trying to help looking at the situation and the circumstances and also from the way her brother spoke about her being at the emergency. She made it felt like I was wrong for contacting or requesting the assistance of the nurse and me too I saw nothing wrong with what I did. So I asked her that she being a nurse, can't her friends call her to assist them when she starts working and will that be bad on their side.
We disagreed on the matter, and that was the last meaningful conversation we had. She called me a few months ago to check in, but that was it. | 2025-07-23 06:30:30 | |
| My boyfriend and I are getting married in less than 2 months. Because of our marriage I’ve been trying to find out a lot more about him, though I know who he is and I know he cheats but I didn’t know to what extent until recently.
He has a four months old baby with one lady that used to live where his parents are. The parents know about it but also kept it away from me.
I just found out he’s impregnated someone also and the person has refused to terminate.
Aside that, I’ve seen his WhatsApp chat with many ladies. He’s not just flirting. He has slept with many and promised to marry many.
We’ve been together for three years and I may have seen some of these signs but now that I’ve managed to get into his WhatsApp, I know too much and I’m hurt.
I’ve also told people we are getting married already. We are less that two months away from getting married.
I don’t know what happens if I call it off. My mother said if marriage comes once and you decline it, you may never get it again so I should choose wisely. I’m 28 so I’m also scared.But this guy has slept with over 15 women that I saw on his WhatsApp. Some did abortions and he’s still begging and texting more ladies for a relationship. He has even promised some marriage. There’s one lady who’s dowry he has even gone for.
I ask myself what is wrong with him because it’s too much.
I’m very hurt but I don’t want that to cloud my judgement and actions right now. I want to calm down cuz our marriage is some weeks away.
What I want to understand is why he is even doing it. Am I to proceed with this marriage or call it off? What do I tell everyone if I call it off and what do I do with the things I’ve used my money to buy?? I’ve invested so much money into this marriage. I’ve bought my gown and it’s being sewn.
I’m just so confused. I don’t know what to do. This guy is someone I love and would love to be with but, considering all these things, what do I do even do? | 2025-07-23 06:27:08 | |
| I am a lady who is 36 years and married but without a child yet. I heard that one can even fall in love even when married, and I thought it was a joke. Currently, I am experiencing one and I must say it has not been easy. I met this guy at a wedding reception and realized, we had a connection between us because we kept looking at each other. Since I got married about 5 years ago, I have never cheated on my husband.
Sel, I fell for him in my heart and in order to prevent my marriage status from destroying his interests, I quickly took off my wedding ring. We started talking and have been dating for some months now. Most times, I feel guilty but I cannot also help it because, I really love him.The problem now is that, I am on the verge of losing him and my husband. I didn't know they were colleagues at my husband's former work place and are friends.
Sel, apparently, he showed my picture to my husband that, i am his lovely girlfriend he wants to marry. My husband told him I was married but he never believed it. He therefore called to ask and I denied it again, without knowing the phone was on loud speaker for my husband, to hear.My husband wants me out while, he also doesn't want to see me again.How do I convince my husband that I am truly sorry? | 2025-07-20 00:18:58 | |
| I’m attracted to a friend’s wife and want to flirt with her to see where it leads because no matter how hard I try to ignore the feeling, it only gets worse. . I believe the direct approach is the best way. If I’m confident enough to tell her to her face, she may say Yes because she looks at me too, and I’m sure she’s noticed how I look at her. I am nicer than the husband - who’s my friend so that could also count for me.
I am concerned about rejection and losing their friendship, especially with the man because we’ve been friends for long and we have a lot going on together. It would affect as significantly if we should ever go apart as friends.
My intention is to get the woman to want to do this with me secretly, I won’t create any suspicion and I would want this hidden for as long as we do it!
I know this shouldn’t be sent here and I shouldn’t even be thinking it, because I’ve my own wife as well but this is what I’m going through and exactly how I’m thinking at the moment.Could you please post, maybe some thing can change my mind. If nothing doesn’t, I will take my chances. I’m so afraid but what choice have I when my heart beats for the lady in question? Hmmmm | 2025-07-19 02:39:10 | |
| Once there were two boys living in a small village. They were the best of friends. One was 10 years old and the other just 6.
One day, while playing together, they wandered a bit too far from the village without noticing. Lost in their games, the older boy slipped and fell into a ditch that had some water in it. He didn’t know how to swim and got scared, so he started yelling for help.
The younger boy looked around, but there was no one in sight to help. Then, suddenly, he noticed a bucket tied to a rope nearby. Without wasting any time, he threw the bucket down into the ditch for his friend to grab onto. The older boy held tight to the bucket, and the younger boy pulled with all his strength. It wasn’t easy, but he kept trying—and finally, he managed to pull his friend out of the ditch.
The boys were so happy, they hugged each other and danced around in joy. But soon, they started to worry about what the villagers might say. They thought they’d be scolded for going too far from home.
But something unexpected happened. Instead of being angry, the villagers were shocked. They found it hard to believe that a 6-year-old, who couldn’t even lift a full bucket of water, had pulled a 10-year-old boy out of a ditch!
No one believed the story—except one old man in the village, known for being wise. He praised the boys for their bravery and strength.
Curious, the villagers asked the old man if he really thought the story was true.
The wise man said, “The question isn’t whether the story is true or not. The real question is—how did a small 6-year-old boy manage to pull out a 10-year-old from a ditch?”
Then he answered, “It’s because there was no one around at that moment to tell the little boy he couldn’t do it. Not even himself.” | 2025-07-19 02:36:20 | |
| Good morning Kwaku
My husband and I got married over a year ago. I was earning over Ghc 12,000 take home salary while he earned somewhere Ghc 5,000
He didn’t have any issues with it and I didn’t have one either. About three months into the marriage my salary went up and later went up again. I’m taking over Ghc 20,000 now but it’s just salary, it’s not a big deal for me.
The thing is, my husband is so insecure but won’t admit it. I don’t ask him fr money, I’ve asked him to save his so we spend my money on everything. I even give him part of my salary for his own expenses. I just want to make him comfortable and happy.
But this man is still insecure. He said he won’t impregnate me until he earns more or equivalent to my salary. He’s doing his masters and giving himself pressure, talking to people and always trying other companies to see if he could get a better salary.
It’s like he’s in a competition with me. Me I don’t even talk about money with him and he’s never asked me for money for anything, once I see he has a need or is worried about something, I just transfer money to him.(Join us on IG: @loveandpills_kwaku)
I earn allowances too so I don’t mind, I just want us to be happy. I have two master’s degrees, an MPhil and other certificates and he has just a degree.
I got him that job that pays him the 5K but I don’t mention it.
I am 31 and wants to have children but this man is so reluctant, always saying he wants to start earning more money first. I give him enough for him to save his entire 5K monthly but he’s not satisfied.
I’ve never had money fights with him and I do everything at home, he doesn’t even help. We are the same age, all I want is for us to love each other and be happy.
I want us to start a family, it’s almost two years. What else can I do to make him see that I’m not about money. I just want us to be happy cuz nothing I do is working. I can’t even tell him my achievements at work or anything that brings money to me cuz he would be jealous- how can I make him feel safe, advise me please | 2025-07-18 20:50:26 | |
| Morning boss
I’m struggling to be fine. I don’t mean to disrespect any woman but my nose boss. My nose is struggling, it’s affecting my overall health and functioning. I’m sick.
So I met this lady here on your page. We started talking and it led to a relationship. Before she came here, she was preaching licking. She said if she comes and I don’t lick her, the relationship is over cuz for her, licking is very important. She sounded like with her, a relationship only thrives when a man can lick. She said she doesn’t date men who don’t lick and whatsoever.
And she kept emphasizing on the fact that she’s neat down there cuz she likes to be licked. She sounded very convincing.
So of course, to get what I want, I agreed that I was going to lick her as much as she wants since we were both going to enjoy.
Hmmmm boss, this lady came here. She made me buy different foods cuz she said she likes to be eating when being licked. She came and ate a lot, saying she was hungry and bla bla bla.
I turned on a movie and we went inside bed. Kay, when I took my head down there and started licking her the smell that came out has traumatized me. Excuse my language but it smelled like a gutter. Really offensive. I vomitted instantly in front of her on the bed.
The whole room was smelling. I put off the AC and opened the windows.
Can you believe she slapped me because I vomitted? Saying I have insulted her by insinuating her place was smelling. | 2025-07-18 20:48:57 | |
| I’ve been raising my stepdaughter for 15 years now. Helped her with school, bought her a car when she graduated. I’ve been there every step on the way.
Next week Saturday is her wedding, she’s 27. We’ve planned this for a long time, the man is capable but I still gave them money to make the ceremony grand. She came to show the man to me, but her mother said since I wasn’t her biological father, she was going to get the dowry from her family for the man and I said okay.
I’m just finding out that, she actually went for the dowry from the biological father of the girls’ family. As if that’s not enough, my daughter came to tell me last night that she doesn’t want me to be the one to walk her into her man’s arms that day, that her mom said her biological dad should do it. She also said she thinks that’s the right thing to do, adding that it would make her husband to be’s family respect her.
I know she said all the things she said because her mother told them those things. She gave her those reasons, the daughter I raised is smart but wouldn’t think like that. Her mother put her to all these.
A girl I watched through school because her biological father couldn’t. He abandoned them. When I met my wife (her mother), she had nothing but I gave her love and brought them to my home. I gave them comfort, today she drives out of my house in different cars. Her daughter drives her own car and is working with a reputable firm because I recommended her. I did all these things out of love.
I loved this girl like mine, I never for once thought she wasn’t my child. It’s time for her to get married and her mother goes all the way to look for her father to come and walk her down to her husband? For what? To see that they’ve made it with my money? This is interesting.
Can you believe I called her this morning to talk about it and she said it’s the right thing to do, that the child has a father so she won’t treat her like she doesn’t?
Yes. This is my pay back for all I’ve done for them out of love. I’ve told them. I won’t be at the wedding. Once she’s married, her mother leaves the house. I gave her enough already, she doesn’t even have a child for me. She just came to help me take care of the two I had with my late wife. My own daughter would soon get there, she’s only 22 and studying abroad. I’ll get the opportunity to walk her, like someone would walk her’s to my son. (Join us on IG: Loveandpillsgh)
If there’s any lesson I’ve learnt at 51, it would be to be careful with a woman who’s already got a child. Seems they never get over the men who abandon them. When I met this woman she was nothing, her child was older than mine, but I didn’t mind. I saw her to be someone who could love my kids like her own. Even with that, I saw several times that she didn’t fully love them. She’s the reason my kids didn’t have to study here, I initially wanted them at Lancaster but I flew them cuz I was scared of this same woman. She’s just proven that she never loved me that much. It was comfort she needed. | 2025-07-18 20:47:07 | |
| Kwaku, my wife has loaned some amount of money to her ex lover (Ghc 35,000). I only got to know this three days ago and I’m very upset. She said she thought he would pay back on the date he promised but it’s been six months and he’s not paying back.
We’ve been married for only two years, we were saving that money in her account for a land we wanted to buy this year. It’s time for us to buy the land, she knows the money wasn’t there and has been silent. Watching me go up and down. I’ve finally secured the land and it’s time to pay.
So I came to her and all she has was less than half of the money. She’s now crying that she loaned it to someone. I insisted on knowing who. She wouldn’t reveal the person’s identity at first. She even lied about the person but I managed to get the person to tell me she lied.
That was when she now came forth to tell me the name of the person and it’s her ex lover. The one she dated before I met her. I’m surprised she’s still in touch with him to the extent of loaning him money for over 6 months now. She told me a long time ago that the she’s blocked and deleted the number.
This past three days has been very difficult for me. I can’t even trust her and I’m so unhappy. Now I’ve to forgo the land because I don’t know how to reach the guy, she does and but she’s saying the guy is not in town so I should give her some time to reach him.(Join us on IG: Loveandpillsgh)
I’m not even sure this guy would pay this money. Shouldn’t this be enough reason to divorce her? She’s obviously not ready to build with me, because we have plans and this is how she’s destroying the plans.
I’m not happy at all. I don’t even know what to do to her. She’s pregnant, so I don’t want to do what’s on my mind. I’m so hurt bro, I’m so disappointed. This is so painful. The way I walked because of this land and the stress I’ve been through? It’s drained every penny I have, only to know the hope isn’t there, she’s given it to an ex lover.
That money is every penny I’ve saved since after we got married. We kept it in her account because when it’s in mine, the responsibilities will drain it. How could she do this to me? It’s all my money, and of all people why her ex? I’m so bitter, I don’t know what to do. | 2025-07-18 20:43:35 | |
| I wished you could have a better positon of standing with a clear eye set to see the view of where im coming from... You see sometimes smoking is the only thing I can rely on to keep me accompanied when ever i'm about to overthink or feel lonely because I'm a idgaf, soft core & hard lover(addicted) type of person..I aren't like to make friends nor be in public, I like to be by myself been indoors right after work or any important thing I've to deal with outside my space | 2025-07-18 20:07:23 | |
| Good morning my neighbors | 2025-07-11 07:30:15 | |
| I messed up but I put myself together and moved on. I asked for forgiveness and God forgave me. | 2025-06-30 08:22:13 | |
| I love you | 2025-06-20 23:22:39 | |
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| I’m a 32-year-old woman, and my best friend and I have been inseparable since we met at work 8 years ago. She was my biggest support when I went through a painful divorce 7 years ago, and I feel extra guilty for how my feelings about her have been changing recently.
My best friend is currently in the middle of divorcing her useless husband, a total deadbeat who has barely been present in their children’s lives (6 years old and 3 years old). Honestly, I couldn’t be happier for her because she’s basically been a single mother while also working full-time. The problem is who she’s running to for comfort, a married coworker.
It started as emotional cheating, but now it’s a full-blown affair. My ex-husband left me for another woman, and I later found out he had cheated multiple times during our marriage. I like to think I’m an open-minded person, but cheating is where I draw the line. I hate that my best friend is doing this, but here I am, listening to her proudly talk about sneaking around behind a woman’s back.
This married man has completely messed with her mind. He makes her feel like she needs him, but at the same time, he constantly reminds her that he isn’t leaving his wife. It’s one of the most toxic situations I’ve ever seen. They’ve been going at this for about six months, with a few “breakups” in between. Each time they "break up," she gets completely devastated, drinks excessively, and shuts down emotionally.
I know I can’t control her decisions, but I can’t keep watching this happen. What makes it even worse is that she insults the man’s wife, making comments about her looks and how she doesn’t “deserve” him. It disgusts me. What are we, in SHS again? Tearing down another woman just because you want her husband? I don’t even recognize my best friend anymore.
I finally told her that I don’t want to hear about the married man again, and since then, things have felt off between us. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to lose her, but I also can’t sacrifice my mental peace just to support her bad decisions. Is this just a phase that she’ll get past once her life settles down? Or did I never really know her to begin with?
To make things worse, I’m getting married later this year, and she’s supposed to be my Maid of Honour. If not for that, I would have just given her some space to figure things out, but now I feel trapped.
Please, I need advice. Has anyone dealt with something like this before? How do I support her while also protecting my own peace? | 2025-03-28 08:55:20 | |
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| I was working with a betting company before I had a baby. She is almost a year old but I don’t have anyone to watch her for me so I would return to work. The work scene is not particularly child-friendly so taking the child to work is out of the question. This is why I have been unemployed since the baby arrived.
I have two other kids, and that was what happened when I had them too. I had to stay away from work till they were independent enough to start school. Then I would find another job.
I have noticed that my husband changes toward me every time this happens. It’s as if he tries to punish me for getting pregnant. Despite knowing that I have no money, he would only give me money to cover household expenses and bills. When it comes to my personal needs, it doesn’t concern him.
So many times, I have asked him for money to take care of myself. “You know I am not working at the moment. So add something extra to the housekeeping money, so I can have something for myself.”
Each time he told me, “I can’t give you something I don’t have. What I give you is all I can afford.”
I thought he would change with time, but after five years and three children, he is still the same.
I know someone would ask why I kept having kids for him then. Well, I always tried to get family planning so we could pace our kids properly. Each time, he discouraged me.
“Let’s just track your safe and unsafe periods. It’s better than pumping your body full of chemicals,” he would say.
That’s how I found myself on baby number three. Well, I have decided not to put myself in this position again. I am currently on one of the birth control methods. This time around, I didn’t discuss it with him.
Since I can’t take my child to a confined workplace, I have decided to start a business but I know he won’t give me money for capital.
So, my plan is to start something that requires no capital at all. I want to go to people’s homes and do their laundry. I am hoping to save something out of that, then I can get capital to start something small.
The problem is my husband. He is not the kind of man who would be happy that I am providing laundry services for people.
I have considered not telling him about it. I would wait till he leaves for work, and then I would also go about my business. But the question is, how long will I do it before he finds out?
I want to know if it will be wrong of me to start anyway, without telling him. And the family planning I did, I still haven't told him. Am I a bad wife for keeping it a secret? | 2025-03-28 07:40:42 | |
| there’s this guy I’ve been admiring for years now. I think since 2018 when I completed High school. But he’s a very quiet and collected. He doesn’t talk nor do plenty girls. Lucky enough, we’ve been in the same area so I’ve known him to date.
I struggled to get his attention because he doesn’t talk plenty and he’s a very shy person. I kept on talking to him when I see him and doing things until he recently asked for my number to send me money to buy him honey. That’s how we started talking. Even with that, I did the calling mostly until he saw that I was giving him green flags and decided to take things further.
So he eventually asked if I had someone and I said No. then he proposed and we started dating.
It used to be just talking and texting at the beginning, no proper conversation so I started talking naughty and saying things to spark the relationship. Then he invited me to his place a few times but never touched me or even did the attempt.
So one day I told him on the phone to feel free that I’m not scared of sezz nor do I do, sezz after marriage and he said Okay. when I went and this guy touched me and started kissing me and stuff, I was happy until i saw his p3nis. Please, it wasn’t normal. I became so scared. I saw it like a snake at first, before I second gazed and saw it was p3nis. It was so big and long, he pulled it out of his shorts like we take snakes out of bags. The thing was not even standing, it was just looking down and nodding. I shouted Jesus! and rushed out.
Now I want to even go back and apologize to him but I can’t. He has also not called nor answered my calls. It’s like he’s angry, cuz he’s avoiding me.
Me I don’t even want the relationship again. I’m done with him. I just feel I should say Sorry for shouting and running away. That p3nis is definitely not normal. Either he’s suffering from some disease or he took some drug to get that as side effect. It’s too bad. I haven’t even slept since. I thank God so much I saw it earlier cuz if he put it in me, I would have d!£d.
So please how do I get him to talk to me and listen to my apology? Or I should just ignore him? Advice me please 🙏🏻 | 2025-03-27 17:38:07 | |
| very night, around 1am, a spirit comes to wake me up. It’s a woman, I’ve never seen her face but she comes through the roof, taps me on the forehead and asks me to wake up. She then makes me follow her to where my sister is sleeping, makes me go round her three times and rub her face, then lets me sleep with her, while she sits and watch me till I’m done, then she leaves through the roof and I go back to sleep. This has been happening for the past 7 months, and my sister has never woken up during the act. She only wakes up in the morning to complain that someone slept with her. She doesn’t even know it’s me, but I always know that I did something with her. I do not have control over what happens every dawn, even if I want to say No, I’m unable to speak.
I see my sister struggling, moving from one pastor to another seeking solution with my mother. They’re wasting money but I can’t say I’m the one the spirit uses to sleep with her, because I feel very bad about it.
There are times I’ll deliberately stay awake just so the time passes but anytime it’s that same time, the spirit comes and I lose absolute control until she leaves and it’s morning. Sometimes I try to shout but it doesn’t come.
I tried sleeping out to avoid this, but anytime i stay out and it’s around 12am, something just possess me and I want to go home. I always find myself at home by morning, when I had already slept with my sister at dawn.
I have control of myself only in the morning. Once the woman arrives, it’s like I can’t talk nor do anything for myself. Sometimes I can even not be sleeping when she has left but, I feel dull and inactive till it’s in the morning, then I’m sad within and my sister is crying and complaining to my mother that it happened again.
I am 23 years old and my sister is 28. I am scared and shy to narrate what happens at that hour to them. I am not happy at all.
I’ve tried sleeping with a Bible next to me. Sometimes I even read it and pray but it doesn’t work. I feel like we can find a solution together when I tell my mother about it, but how would they be looking at me? Why doesn’t my sister ever wake up as well? Sometimes she would say she’s sleeping during the day not to sleep at night, but anytime I go she’s sleeping.(Join us on IG: Loveandpillsgh)
I think of so many ways not to do it in my head, but they don’t manifest. I don’t know who the woman that comes through the roof is, but she’s certainly destroying my family.
Bra Kwaku, should I tell my sister and my mother that it’s me who does it under the influence of a strange woman or I should leave them to keep trying to seek solutions? I’m unhappy for my sister. She’s struggling. We’re all stagnant in life. Nothing is working. Help us please 🙏🏻 . Even this morning, we are here and my sister is heavily crying inside because it’s happened again, after doing some spiritual direction last night to prevent it😢! | 2025-03-27 17:33:08 | |
| We have been together since August, and she has been awesome. A sweet girl and more.
I’m not working currently, but because of my skill, I get contracts once in a while, and she understands my situation. She has been inviting me to meet her family and to meet mine, but I don’t think I’m ready for that now, and I told her. She told me that she will give me time, and she just wants the best for us. She invited me to worship with her after she learned that I stopped going to church.
Yesterday I decided to visit her church to get her off my back. She gave me her phone to use because I don’t have the Bible app on my phone.
During service a message came, and the content of the message got me interested because it looks like it was from a lover. I decided to read their conversation and another one. I decided to stop there, because what I saw was something that shocked me, and I don’t know what to do now.
From the messages, it’s clear that she is seeing other men that are much older than us and won’t take her anywhere.
I’m confused, and I don’t know how to proceed. I want to ask her about it, but I also don’t want her to think that I went through her phone to spy on her. I also don’t want to bring it up now, because I want to see more and decide my next step.
I’m wondering if she’s doing it because I refuse to see her people or because I’m not working now. | 2025-03-27 17:30:54 | |
| Access this situation and check if I am feeling entitled or not. when my husband and I got married nine years ago, we both weren’t having anything. We contributed almost evenly towards our marriage, though it was his money that he purchased the dowry.
We lived in a single room, where we both worked hard to save some money before pregnancy came in. He took over the house fully after I first got pregnant, but I still used to do something on the side though.
Being a mother has made it difficult for me to contribute much into the house, but I have always been the pillar behind my husband. I support him fully, I give him ideas, I nurture the ones he brings and also give him the go ahead to use our money(sometimes mine is part) to bring those ideas to past.
Things started working out well about four years ago . He started making more money, but since last year to date, I think things have started working out better. We’ve moved out, changed the kids school and our lives are better.
Since he’s making more now, I want more. I’m his wife and I’ve to benefit most from what he makes cuz no one else was there for him when we were struggling. Last time you posted, someone gave the wife Ghc 5,500 monthly. Don’t I deserve that much as a house wife?
He gives me only Ghc 3,000 for the home monthly. He claims he can’t give me more than that else there would be nothing to save. He won’t give me full detail of how much he earns so I can’t trust his words.
Now he’s saying I’m not giving him peace because I’m constantly demanding more. We’re always quarreling these days. The home has become a war zone and it’s affecting the kids. If he insist all he can give is 3k, why don’t he give me full detail of his monthly earning? If he claims he earns so small, where from the money we used to move into an apartment and move the kids to an expensive school? Where from the money he used to buy all these expensive furnitures and TV and fridge and other things?There’s something I don’t know Bra Kwaku. He just doesn’t want to give me more money and he’s saying I’m feeling entitled. Am I wrong to ask more? | 2025-03-27 17:29:41 | |
| I’ve been in a relationship with my partner for eight years, and we’ve been living together due to financial constraints. While our relationship has been stable, I’ve grown increasingly concerned about her spending habits.
Despite my efforts to advise her, she continues to spend her entire income on material possessions, leaving her with no savings. Recently, she ordered two pairs of Y-3 sneakers costing 500 Ghana cedis each and now wants to purchase two more. Her response to my concerns was that I have no right to dictate how she spends her money, and she’s willing to end the relationship if I continue to intervene.
As someone who genuinely cares for her and wants to build a future together, I’m torn. I’m not dependent on her financially, but I want her to understand the importance of saving for her own future. Her lack of financial responsibility and unwillingness to change worries me.As I speak she has been outside the country with me over 10 years now and she has no money save for her self nor have an account of her own .
Given this situation, I’m seeking advice on whether I’m justified in considering ending the relationship. Apart from this issue, she hasn’t done anything wrong, and I value our connection. However, I fear that her financial habits may create problems in our future together.I’m tired of advising and trying to put her on the right direction.
Please my people ,All I want to ask I’m I right to walk out of this relationship. | 2025-03-27 17:28:13 | |
| my husband’s brother and I got intimate in December last year for the first time. We went somewhere out of town as a family, before that he was already eyeing me because he used to give me some looks and give me some weird attention when he’s around me.
So when we went out, my husband got occupied on one of the days and his brother offered to keep me company. Then he sent me to some part of the forest to show me around but we sort of got lost or let me say we were struggling to find our way back. Then he started acting all romantic and caring. Then he started talking about sezz and later had the courage to grab my br£ast and even kiss me. I tried to fight back but the idea of sezz in the bush seemed nice to me so I gave in. He slept with me there in that bush, thought it was nice, I think I’ve felt sorry afterwards.
I haven’t really given him a chance to come any closer because I see him like my weakness now. I’m avoiding him and he keeps trying to get closer. He’s been texting and saying crazy stuff to me.
I’m always horny when I see his message. I keep watching his pictures and imagining what we did in the bush.
I don’t want to repeat it. I want to avoid him completely but it’s becoming harder to do. (We’re on IG: Loveandpillsgh)
Please, what do I do? My husband can’t know about us as well. | 2025-03-27 17:27:24 | |
| I've fallen deeply in love with you, I've made it very obvious buh it's like you are not seeing it. It's hurts please stop hurting me 😩🥺😢,I love you and I'm genuine | 2025-03-26 18:35:03 | |
| Please and please stop texting my husband, the next time I see you that way you wouldn't like what might happen next . | 2025-03-19 14:48:31 | |
| Hey bby why are you treating me bad? Don’t you love me anymore | 2025-03-18 09:17:13 | |
| What do you do when you’re tired of your marriage but it’s just been a few months when you entered?
I met this guy in February last month. He sounded very intentional and straightforward, it was almost like we both knew what we wanted cuz our communication was on a different level. Within two months of dating, we had started planning marriage.
I thought to myself that you didn’t have to date a person for so long before marrying them, that love was love. On 20th July last year we got married, exactly six months of dating and knowing each other. by October last year, I felt so much that I didn’t want to be married to this guy. I feel in suffocating. I don’t want him at all. It’s feel like marrying him is the worse decision I’ve made in life.
I don’t know what to do. I’m back in the arms of the very ex I wanted to shame by getting married quickly cuz my husband only irritates me. He’s done nothing, I just want to disappear in this thing called marriage cuz I feel trapped with the wrong person.It’s like I just want to shout or burst out. Being with my ex is the only thing giving me peace right now. Never thought I would cheat but I really need this to feel alright.
If I am not careful or if I don’t divorce him now, which I feel is impossible because we just got married and he hasn’t done anything, but I just don’t love him, I may end up sharing one of those DND stories you have been posting. What do I do | 2025-03-17 12:46:10 | |
| I rented a place for my girlfriend’s parents in November of 2023. I paid for two years (19,200) so it would expire November this year. I was also seeing her through school, I give her weekly allowance, and also paying for her rent.
I loved this lady and wanted to marry her so I was doing everything for her and her family. Unfortunately, she doesn’t love me as much. She got pregnant for someone else twice. I am sure she would have pinned them on me if I was around and touching her, lucky enough I travel a lot so I wasn’t in town most times, sometimes I go as long as 4 months, other times less.
What did she do when she got pregnant? She ab0rted both pregnancies, because she doesn’t want me to know.
She didn’t tell me this. I got her a new phone recently, so I took the old one to give to one of my workers. She couldn’t delete her stuff, so I wanted to do that for her when I saw messages between her and the guy she got pregnant for. I saw others, but I’ll leave them out. She’s just a big cheat! The guy knows she has me, cuz that’s the reason she gave him for not wanting to keep the pregnancies. She told the guy, “you know if I keep this and Gideon finds out, that’s my end right? He is the one taking care of my family and I”.
Well, I still found out! She’s not just sleeping with someone else, she’s tempering with her womb so I struggle to have kids in the future. Personally, I’ll never marry a woman who has done an abortion before. I’ve never asked anyone to do one for me and I never will, so I deserve a fresh womb!
I am hurt with what I’ve seen. I feel disappointed and heartbroken! I can’t forgive it so I’ve withdrawn all assistance I’m offering her. I’ve also asked her parents to move out before this month ends. The girl herself, I’ve moved her out and taken some items I got her. I’ve given her parents some weeks cuz I respect them, they didn’t wrong me.They’re begging me to leave them till the rent expires in November so they figure themselves out, but I feel I want to cause them the pain their daughter caused me. I want to retaliate so badly that, though I pity them. I want them to move out.
I hope I’m not being too wicked here? I’ve been thinking. | 2025-03-17 12:43:00 | |
| I've been friends with this guy for 2years now. He's amazing and a good adviser. We used to chat and talk about life and our future.
Recently, he proposed to me, and I accepted because he's a good guy, and I've become fond of him. We took things to another level and we decided to spend a night together but I realised he had a very big problem which he feels shy to discuss with anyone. He does not have an erection and when his dick finally decides to rise, he releases within 3 seconds of penetration. I've told him to go to the hospital for help. He feels shy to do that despite all my pleading and assurances. I want to help him because he's a good person and I've fallen in love with him. Please ask your audience if there's any medicine or herbs that can make him a full 'man' again. Thank you | 2025-03-17 12:39:23 | |
| in relation to the story the gentleman shared about his wife being “wiser” with her salary, lemme share mine to motive men in such situations.
I have been married for 9years. My wife and I were earning almost the same amount when we got married. Then I lost my job. She was still working. She never disrespected me but that was the moment I got to understand women do not joke with their money.
I didn’t have a laptop to be applying for a job at the time and had to go to edit my CV and apply for a job. We were spending a lot on typing and printing alone so I thought I could get a laptop, type at Home and only to go to the printing guys to print.
My wife at the time had kept GHS700.00 with me and had traveled. One afternoon, out of frustration I just picked the money, searched for a laptop online to buy I bought to laptop with her money.
I used the money and later informed my wife. Even though she had some money saved, she got furious, said a few unprintable stuff to me and suggested we kept our Monies separately. Mind you, I didn’t inform her cos I knew she was going to shoot down the idea.
This broke me cos I had invested a lot in her even before getting married to her. I contributed to her to finish university. In fact I contributed to about 98% of her university education cost cos she had no one.
I was hopeful I was going to bounce back and wasn’t too worried ba bro her reaction that day saddened my heart. I only apologized and we moved on. But from then, I run the home as if she never existed. Even with my masters, I did every menial job I could find so I don’t go back to her for support. I run my home as a man. I never begrudged her. I only understood she was probably exhibiting the traits of most women.(being too conscious of her money)
God rewarded my hustle. About 2years later, I landed a very good job. Earning in excess of 17K monthly aside allowances. My fuel allowance alone was about her 5months salary put together at the time.
Then alas, she lost her job too. I never mistreated her or reminded her of what she did. In fact I used to tease her With it and we both laughed over it. For more than 5 years she had been unemployed and I have run the home alone. She has learned her lessons now that she got a new job just last year which pays about her about 4k. And my clothing allowance alone is more than her salary.
I don’t ask her to contribute. If she decides to, fine. If not, I don’t bother. The young man should just forget about his wife’s salary and manage the home with the little he is making. He should just live a low life and not increase his expenditure. He should live within his means and trust me, life will come smiling at him in due course. Karma, they say is a bitch. | 2025-03-17 12:32:40 | |
| I am a lady of 26 years old and in the university. I’ve a boyfriend who actually does everything for me, I’ll be honest.
But I’ve personally needs that he doesn’t meet. I’m a big girl so my demand has increased and my level has also gone up. So I do hookup aside schooling to help me get myself those needs.
I’ve some money saved, I’m using the phone of my choice, I have an apple laptop, among others. He didn’t get me these items, I got them for myself through the hookup.
I admit hookup is bad, I didn’t really think of how it would affect him but, I have stopped now. It’s not something I’ll ever return to. my man found out when he accessed my phone that this is what I do. I don’t even know how he did. He is very disappointed in me and has called off the relationship. He doesn’t want to have anything to do with me again. I’ve pleaded my all for a second chance but he won’t listen. He thinks I’m ungrateful for still doing what I did, despite giving me what he claims to be everything.
I am a changed person. I was only following the crowd. I wanted to fit in. After he saw those messages, I’ve been very ashamed of myself. Selling my body for money is bad.
I also want to say that I made sure everyone I slept with was protected. So I have no infection, if that’s what he’s worried about. Please help me beg him. I’ll send his contact to you so you can convince him for me | 2025-03-17 12:28:14 | |
| I love you buh I'm afraid to approach you because of......at the same time scared to loose you | 2025-03-05 22:52:26 | |
| We were married for 10 years. We separated last year because my husband came home to say he had kids outside. Not just one, but three and with two women. How could he cheat on me and have kids with two different women? Do we call that a mistake?? Yet he claims it was a mistake and asked me to forgive him and I did. I did because he said he had learnt his lessons and assured me he wasn’t going nearer to those women anymore.
He brought the two kids who have the same mother home to me to take care of because the woman abandoned them. It was so hard for me but I embraced them after he constantly pleaded with me, alongside his 78 year old mother, not to leave him.
How much was he earning? Ghc 4200. We have four kids ourselves, plus the two he brought, making 6. Our last born was barely two years and the youngest of the kids he brought was around that same age. It was stressful but I let it all go and I loved and started caring for those kids as mine. He barely left any money home cuz he had too many women to please. I did majority of the spending on the family, I eventually went broke!
Then I saw on his phone some time later that a third lady was pregnant for him and he was begging her to ab0rt it. Why won’t my husband keep his p£nis one place? Not long after that, the other lady who already had a child for him came chasing him with the child. She was also pregnant for the second time and my husband wasn’t sending her money so she came to drop the existing baby.
It was too much for me. I called a family meeting(his and mine). I told them everything. When I was done, my father said, “Ewura go and park your things and let’s go home, when he’s ready he knows what to do”(in twi). I took our last two borns with me, he’s still struggling here and there to find his feet because of multiple women. I intend going for my other kids cuz he has even changed their school to public and I don’t like how they’re looking. I’m working, so I’ll take care of them myself. He calls me day and night to beg me to return but I know once I return, he would go back f00ling again.Sometimes men behave like they’re gods hence their lifestyle shouldn’t hurt us. No matter how much he begs me, I’m not sure I’ll go back Kwaku! I’m really done. | 2025-03-05 18:00:46 | |
| My husband and I have a joint account for the family and we made it ‘either to sign’. We have a standing order on our accounts so deductions can be made into the joint account every month. I contribute 2x of his. Last year, in December, we had a family emergency, so my husband was the one going to the bank to withdraw funds.
Just last month, I said let me check on this account only to find out he’s withdrawn an extra 8k(GHC). I got very angry and disappointed considering that 1. He didn’t mention it to me 2. I contribute more 3. He has defaulted in 3 months contributions when I checked the account statement 4. He barely contributes to anything at home. He never has money. I literally fend for myself and for him too 5. He cheated/ing on me and travelled to have fun with the girl even after I found out, during my 6th month of pregnancy. So, I cancelled my standing order, withdrew all the money, and left the minimum amount without telling or asking him anything. Is this wrong in a marriage?
He recently mentioned that he took 5k from the account to get me the phone I’m using. Kwaku, here’s a man who has been constantly reminding me of how he used all his salary to get me a phone and now he’s saying this. He recently asked if I’ve withdrawn money from the account and when I said yes, he couldn’t ask why or what I used it for. I guess he got the memo. Bra Kay, I’ve lost trust on all sides for this man, it’s making all the love clear from my eyes. I’m torn between divorce and getting a second chance. This man showed me shege during my pregnancy eerh. He was never there for me. During postpartum too, he’s not coming through for me. Will I be making a wrong decision to leave him, or can we still repair this? Note that he doesn’t like to talk about issues he wants them to just go away. | 2025-03-05 12:42:00 | |
| I ended my two years relationship in 2023 because we were both AS genotypes. We didn’t even think of genotype until we wanted to get married. Then a friend mentioned it and said it was important that we checked. We did and the doctor advised us strongly not to marry. It was hard but we read around it and everything showed it was a risk. We eventually had to let go, despite loving each other dearly.
I started seeing someone somewhere April last year. My ex is also seeing someone but because we still love each other, we always end up in each others arms. I don’t remember the last time I went a week without seeing him. Now matter how much we plan not to see each other, we miss ourselves and I always end up in bed together.
I discovered recently that I was pregnant for him(my ex), I couldn’t keep it and I couldn’t also let my current boyfriend know about it so I ab0rt end it.
Bro Kwaku, it seems we can’t do without each other. We have agreed to always meet for sezz and just marry other people who are AA genotype. I know this would hurt our partners in the long run but, what can we do?
I would break up with my current bf and I’m sure he would do same, if we had the power to change things. It’s almost a year and we’ve never gone a day without hearing from each other. It’s almost like we are still dating cuz we are in love with ourselves. I don’t even feel anything for my current BF. I’m with him just for marriage and kids.I don’t wish to be a cheat but that’s the situation and it hurts me so much that I’m in the lives of two men. How do I overcome my ex and start living cuz I’m really enjoying him and nothing I think of seem to scare me enough to want to stop! | 2025-03-05 11:34:16 | |
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| I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we planned of marrying mid thus year.
Getting to the end of last year, a new member of our church proposed to me, but I made him aware that I'm dating and would be getting married. He persisted everyday, giving me gifts and money. So I gave in and he started sleeping with me.
Last month I realised I was pregnant but wasn't sure who it belongs to because I was sleeping with my boyfriend and this new guy.
When I told the new guy, he told me to abort it because he knows I have a boyfriend and also his own girlfriend is abroad and he'll be joining her soon. He went further to block me. I don't even know where he stays, as we were sleeping in hotels or his car.
I didn't know that this guy knew my boyfriend. He called him to disclose everything to him last week and now my boyfriend has ended our relationship. He has asked his security at home and the office not to allow me near him. He has also blocked me.
Right now, I'm so heartbroken and disappointed. I don't know whether to keep the child or abort it.
How do I get my boyfriend back? I know I messed up, but I've repented and want to do the right thing. | 2025-03-02 12:32:06 | |
| I lost my sis nd was buried just this February, my boyfriend didn't attend the funeral nor support me in anyway..
When I complained he told me he has asked his friends nd colleagues and they said he doesn't owe me any support.
He lost his dad and he will be buried in March.
I have decided not to attend nor render him any support too even tho he gives me every detail of what's going on concerning the upcoming funeral. | 2025-03-01 08:13:25 | |
| I have this boyfriend of mine who’s away because of school
We started dating last year we were friends before for a long time I think 11 years if I’m not mistaken and started dating lats year and I was the one who approached him first and told him how I feel about him we were okay in our relationship at the first 5 months but didn’t communicate that much everyday plus he live far from where I stay when we started communicating everyday things were great and all and we could meet after some months or few weeks then this year things started going south we argued almost all the time but we could come up with a solution and we both agree to it one thing we fight about is who is right and who is wrong we believe in many different things I want commitment and all but he doesn’t he says he’s not into relationships and stuff like that in a relationship he said he doesn’t wanna settle down or commit to one person he’s not ready and also said our relationship is toxic because I expect much from him which was all I wanted was to feel loved and I love him so much one day he told me that he doesn’t care what I do in my life or body he’s only with me because I’m with him and he only loves me because I love him I don’t even know why I’m writing this now that he’s away whenever I call him he doesn’t answer my calls and all he says is that he’s not comfortable wherever he is and I accepted every treatment he gives me because I love him should I continue being with him even though he hurts me and he told me that if I leave or stay the decision is mine to take | 2025-03-01 07:37:29 | |
| My father is 75 years old and my mom is 70 but she has stroke and is confined in a wheelchair. My father on the other hand is fine. I’m the last born, so I stay with them for now and work alongside. My mother can only not walk but she sees everything and can speak a bit.
My father is hurting her more, it’s like he doesn’t care about her anymore. My father has a girlfriend and he used to bring the girl home when I’m not around but now he even brings her when I’m around.
He says he doesn’t care what any of us (my siblings and I and our mom) say or do. We are all worried for our mother. We want her to go and stay with my elder sister or brother but she has refused. She wants to stay and see what our dad is doing. Meanwhile, anytime my father brings a woman home, she cries and her condition gets worse, sometimes she ends up in the hospital.
My father at his age keeps bringing his girlfriend, sometimes he even brings another girl who is younger. He says it’s his house. Now his girlfriend even drives one of the cars in the house and she also doesn’t respect me but anytime she dares talk to our mom, we all descend on her so she doesn’t do that anymore.
We want our mom to agree to leave the house. She says if she leaves our dad will waste all he has gathered on this woman but we are all doing very fine. We don’t need a penny from our father and even if he is to waste money on this woman, he can’t finish what he already has.We want our mom alive, can you help with suggestions? Or we should let the doctors scare her? That’s not even working but we all want to save our mom. It’s really worrying us that our dad isn’t respecting any of us at his age! | 2025-02-26 08:44:36 | |
| let me put this here. Nine years ago I met this little boy about 4 years old walking alone. I didn’t know who’s child he was nor where he was going. I took him with me because when I asked him questions, he couldn’t answer them, and it was late as well (around 7pm).
I took him home, fed him and made him sleep. I was hoping to hear that a child was missing but I didn’t. After about a week later, I saw it on the television that he was missing. I saw his name and picture but I didn’t report. Besides, where the parents said they left him is very far from where I met him so I doubted anyone would even locate him. I kept him to myself because he was cute and I had began to like him so much.
I made sure he stayed inside for close to 9 months, then I moved out with him to a new community far away. He became fat and then I gave him my own name and sent him to school. In fact, he was a good boy. He was smart and handsome. He calls me mom and I’ve never even felt like getting married or having any other kids until recently when he felt sick and unfortunately, di£d. Personally, I’m a very fat person and men never really treated me right so having him made me feel like I’ve had my fair share.
I really regret losing him. I’ve since felt the pain the parents probably felt losing him and I want to apologize to her parents and Ghanaians through your medium. I’m sorry, I didn’t know what came over me. I loved him deeply | 2025-02-25 11:46:38 | |
| I’m going to keep my story short and simple as I can. I am laying in bed right now so confused to point that I don’t even know if should attend class today or not. I’m a recently completed national service personnel in one of the govt institutions. A few months after starting my service I started seeing one of my bosses who is married for 15 years with a beautiful family (3 kids). I know some people will judge and criticize but the truth is when I first saw him I didn’t even think he’d be married. He looked so young g and handsome. It was after I had fallen so deep in love with him that I found out and guess wha I couldn’t leave. In march we will celebrate our 1 year anniversary. The thing is in the course of our relationship I’ve aborted two pregnancies all for him one in may last year and in august the same year. Now the issue is I’m pregnant again. I’ve been stupid. No protection and we’re almost always intimate.
Before service ended too I started school again for my degree. But I had to start over so I’m in level 100 2nd semester. And I’m pregnant for a married man. Though I was detained after service, the salary is not enough to cater for a baby and myself. I’m barely surviving. But deep down I don’t want to abort again to make it three in less than a year. I want to keep this baby.I know schooling and pregnancy with a job won’t be easy but aborting another pregnancy will be so hard for me. I’m seriously confused should I just abort again and just focus on my life now or keep it and do my best and leave the rest to GOD. | 2025-02-25 11:45:22 | |
| Last year I had my own share of broken heart. The lady I was dating for four solid years and took care of from second year in nursing school till she completed decided that I wasn’t good for her anymore.
How did I find out? She was distant. She was avoiding me. She only called when she needed something, and her phone was often busy. She always deleted her logs so I’m never able to know who she was talking to.
I started monitoring her every move. I saw her with different guys at different locations. I was always tracking her phone. The more I saw, the more I’m hurt but I kept following her around to see everything.
When I got access to her phone, I couldn’t control the tears that day.
She had about 6 serious boyfriends, minus me. She had countless boys whom she was texting aside the serious ones and she had actually slept with a few of them.
Then she had a broadcast list with about 60 different boys and the only messages she sent into that broadcast was, “hello dear, good morning, could you please help me with Ghc 20 for something?”. Now imagine each of these guys sending that money or more cuz they thought they’re the only ones she was asking. I don’t know if it was a business but that aside.
I also saw my picture in one of her chats. She sent the guy the picture to prove I’m her brother, the one who takes care of her and added that things are not going well with me so I wasn’t helping much again.
She was in several serious relationships, she went for sleepovers and was having relationship issues that she wasn’t even having with me.
Even her female friends know me as her brother, right from the beginning. She never considered me a boyfriend. She told someone I’m too ugly and gentle for her liking so me I am only her “Mr. Otua”.
Kwaku, When I confronted her, she didn’t even lie about it. She admitted it and asked me if she looked like the type of woman I could be with. Then she said I was lucky she even gave me herself to sleep with cuz her body is for the big boys. That day, I almost collapsed! I went to days without food, I only cried and slept . I’ve decided never to give Love a chance again because what I went through in the girls hands is not something I can forget easily. | 2025-02-24 13:09:39 | |
| My wife had this friend that used to come and sell dresses for her. She owns a boutique, so anytime she goes for new items, she brought them home for my wife to select her choice and pay for.
So this lady came here one of the days and met my wife’s absence. She confirmed that she sold men’s clothes too so we exchanged contacts so I could patronize her later.
That’s how I ended up in a relationship with the lady. I don’t know how to say it but it’s been almost five years. As we speak, she’s pregnant again with a second child for me. I’ve fallen completely in love with her. I would choose her over my wife a million times but I can’t even do that so she’s been a secret till now. She’s so humble, hardworking and loving. In fact, ever since I’ve been with her my life has transformed. My stress level reduced and I’ve been making a lot of money from some of the ideas she made me put into practice.
I wish I married her instead of my wife. She’s so peaceful. I end up spending most of my time with her cuz she’s probably the one for me. I wanted to have four kids with my wife but after the first, I haven’t gotten her pregnant again. I’m rather having the kids with this woman cuz she seem like the one to carry my kids for real.
I’ve gotten her a nice place to stay with my kids and she stopped selling for my wife a long time ago. She’s also been bothering me to at least, see her family and have a traditional marriage with her since we are already having kids and there’s no sign we would ever go apart.
But I’m worried, I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do. I’ve been hitting it off a lot with my wife so she could ask for a divorce but she seem to want to remain married cuz she never mentions divorce. I don’t want to marry another while still married to my wife, that’s definitely a breach of our marital contract.
I want your audience advise on this. I’ve found the perfect woman for me. I’ve dated her for five years and it’s all been a blessing till now. She’s not perfect, she nags and we quarrel but I swear, she’s a good woman. I haven’t wanted someone this bad before. She completes me. | 2025-02-23 17:30:09 | |
| I'm a 24 years and medical student in one of the traditional universities. I don't know if it's a blessing or curse but I'm only interested in ladies above 30. It all started when I was in JHS, my parents got me a teacher to help me with studies at home because I was too slow at picking things in class. She was a very beautiful lady in her early 30s with curves that can not go unnoticed even though I was just 16years and a virgin . To cut stories short, this woman motivated me to learn by giving me a BJ when ever I had all questions she gave correct . This became a moral boaster and built my confidence overtime . But the problem now is that I can not stop f..king older woman because it boasts my self confidence | 2025-02-23 17:29:10 | |
| I am a married man. I’ve a very lovely wife and two beautiful kids. I love my family. There’s this neighbour(a woman) who has been bothering me on WhatsApp and sometimes even calls, when she knows I’m not home. She said she was madly in love with me. She was literally begging me to give her a chance to my side chick cuz she loved me deeply. She’s my neighbor so she knows my wife and kids, she sees how I’m committed to my family and all that but she still insisted she wanted me.
I eventually decided to give her a chance, so after some time we decided to go to a hotel to have sezz or be intimate. She said she was safe so I should cum in her. I really didn’t want to cum in her but she insisted, shouting she’s an adult and that she’s safe. She didn’t even let us use protection in the first place cuz she said she’s free of STI’d etc then she insisted I cum in her and I did.
Truth be told, I felt so sorry after the whole act. I was disappointed in myself for sleeping with a neighbor who would be looking at my wife directly in the eye every day so I called it off.
Then she called just yesterday to say she’s pregnant and that I’m responsible cuz she wasn’t safe when we met but wanted to have a child with me so she lied. She doesn’t want anything from me, she wants me to just cater for her and the child like I do for my wife. Can you imagine that? This is a woman in her 30’s forcing herself on me for whatever reason I don’t know. She said she would keep it even if I k¡|| myself to say she shouldn’t so her terms are her terms.sadly that was our first time making out and she’s already here with trouble. I’ve not slept since last night. I’ve just been sad and thinking. I regret it so much . I don’t know what to do. I messed up, I know that. I just need help. What do I do Kwaku? I can’t hurt my family. This is disappointing. My wife doesn’t deserve this | 2025-02-23 17:26:35 | |
| I’m a young guy of 20 years old. I’m my father’s only son and the first child. I’ve two younger sisters, 18 and 15 years old.
I feel like my father h@tes me Bra Kwaku. I do all the work in the house, I take his cars to and back from the washing bay, I ran all errands for him and I’ve to equally get good grades at school else I’m either grounded or denied some privileges.
Aside that, he doesn’t care for me.
For many years now, I get nothing on my birthday but my sisters get everything, from birthday parties to expensive gifts. Two years ago, my back born received an iPhone 14 Pro Max for her birthday and Ghc 3,000 to go out with her friends. That same year, my father only gave me a wrist watch that’s worth about Ghc 500.
Last year, my sisters phone was upgraded to 15 pro max(while she gave the 14 she was holding to her friend), she was taken for shopping and also given cash to buy any other thing she needed. The Sunday of that same week, dad threw a birthday party for her cuz she was turning 18 and she was also presented with a drivers license. Meanwhile, I had my license at 19 and even that I had to get good grades first. Same last year, when I turned 20, all my dad said was, I’m a big boy now so i should start acting like one, then he gave me Ghc800 to buy a shoe.
My youngest sister enjoys same privileges. Birthday parties and pretty good gifts.
My dad calls me a coward when I complain. He says I act like a woman just for wanting to be treated like everyone else. Now I even h@te my sisters for this. He’s planning on getting her a car this year when I am still here driving his old car. Why me? Bro Kwaku, I get nothing from my dad. He just keeps loading me with responsibilities and making life hard for me. I can’t hangout with my friends but my sisters can. I get penalized for everything. He’s trying to break the love between my sisters and I because right now, I don’t even want to see my sisters. I just h@te everyone in this house. What can I do? I want my father to treat me like I deserve. I know most parents treat their only sons well. I want that treatment too. | 2025-02-22 10:21:55 | |
| My daughter is 22, and she's already sleeping around with men. Not one, two, or three but multiple. I was shocked by the things I saw on her phone. I couldn't believe it. This is a girl we have provided everything for. Just stay on campus, study, and hit good grades, but she keeps failing and deferring because she spends most of her time hanging around men.
Kwaku, what can we do? I don't know what she wants. I've spoken to her, but she isn't listening at all.
She dates married men, old men, young men too. She has aborted for some and made videos with some while having intercourse. She keeps asking them money, and lying her phone is spoilt among others. we give her everything, from phone to money to clothes. We pay everything for her and eve give her extra money for emergencies.
What could be her problem? She keeps saying she doesn't know why she does it. I know to some degree that it is peer influence but really? Peer influence on someone who gets it all? Please we need your humble opinion
We can't watch her destroy her l¡fe like this. What's it we can do? | 2025-02-22 10:19:04 | |
| I slept with my pastor, and we recorded it. Not once but multiple times. Its never been a worry because I know he has kept them safe. It's hidden somewhere on his laptop. Sometimes, when we meet, we watch to learn and improve. I must admit that sezz with him isn't boring at all. It's better than with my husband.
Yes, I'm a married woman. With four kids, all but one is for my pastor. I've never worried about the sezz tapes my pastor has of us, but ever since that Equatorial Guinea man started trending, I've been worried. I've started to think I may not be my pastor's only victim. What if there are other ladies and he records all of us? I've started to wonder why he doesn't let me be the one to open our sezz tapes on the laptop when we want to watch them but himself. I've begun to fear being disgraced. So I told him I wanted to meet him and when we did, I explained to him how scared I was. Hence, I wanted him to delete the video.
His response was that we aren't in Guinea, and no one would ever dare go through his computer because he is a man of God. So I asked him to let me open the videos myself, but he insisted he would open it for me. I forced him to let me do it myself, but he refused. We argued about it for hours but he didn't let me. He left with the computer.
Bro Kay, if these videos ever leak, my husband would not be able to forgive me. I would face the biggest sham£ anybody can face. I've really begun to suspect I'm not the only one whose videos are on there. My pastor said if I must be the one to access the videos, then I should go to h£lI.
Please, what do I do at this point? You know there's nothing hidden under the sun, right? | 2025-02-22 08:58:16 | |
| Hello family kindly help me interpret this .
In the dream I had today, someone who is currently my mate in school asked me to manage his business for him ,that he was traveling, so he handed everything to my plus his Momo phone , he showed me the pin on his Momo number and gave me an egg too . As I was going to keep the egg in my room , it broke. And then I woke up .
I am concerned about the egg cos I think egg signifies a child and I also have one child in real life so this has gotten me scared.
Please I want to know , what it means by breaking an egg in a dream.
Thank you | 2025-02-22 08:47:08 | |
| ne Seamstress has really disappointed me, i introduced my big sis to her to sew her a dress for her naming ceremony. We gave out her the lace like two weeks ago .
This lady posted on her whatsapp status yesterday morning that (admitted).
So i commented under it by saying, sorry. Then i'm not sure you will be able to finish our dress. This lady told me, she was admitted last week sunday, so she has talk to a friend who works at Aseda fashion, so she will do it for us, then we come for it today.hmmm.
This lady didnt called me or text me since morning till i texted her. Then she told me, they are done with my sis own, na for the two kids, she couldn't sew it so she has beg another friend of her who has accepted to do that for us. So we should go for them around 4:30. Was really happy, because i didnt know what to tell my sis.
Indeed we got there to pick the dresses ahhhh hmmmm, abusuafoɔ. As if we have been invited from the Village to a program at Accra oooo. I don't know what to tell my sis.😭😭😭😭. The program is just sunday ooo. So we left home and left the things there. I have told her to refund us the lace and the kids material.
Pls help a sister, i'm i right to take refund from her. Now we have to rush to Accra and get her Dress ooo. Ahhh. I cant stop crying ooo😭😭😭 disappointment mu promax paaa oooo.
Dear dress makers, it very necessary to tell us the truth early than disappointed. It is not fair ooo. How can you do this | 2025-02-22 08:37:14 | |
| It’s hard to put into words the feeling of losing someone who has been a huge part of your life for over a decade. My best friend and I had been inseparable for 11 years. We met when we were young, and over time, our friendship grew into something that felt more like brotherhood. We had each other’s backs through everything, ups and downs, good days and bad. He was my person. The one I could always count on.
But that all changed when he met his girlfriend.
At first, he would tell me everything about her, how he met her, how he felt about her, the little details that made him like her more. I was happy for him. He deserved love, and I was genuinely excited to see where things would go for him. But things started shifting in ways I never expected. She didn’t like how close we were. I remember him telling me that she openly admitted she wanted to pull him away from me, that she didn’t think he should have a best friend like me. When he first told me, I laughed it off because he reassured me that it would never happen. “No one can come between us,” he said. “That’s not how this works.” And I believed him.
But slowly, he started to drift away.
At first, it was little things, taking longer to reply to texts, not making as much effort to hang out, not sharing things with me like he used to. I figured it was just the honeymoon phase of his relationship, that he was caught up in the excitement of something new. I gave him space, understanding that relationships require attention and effort. But then it got worse.
I watched as our friendship faded. He stopped checking in. Stopped making an effort. He wasn’t the same person anymore, and our bond that once felt unbreakable started to feel like a distant memory. I tried reaching out, tried to keep the connection alive, but it was clear that I was the only one trying.
I won’t lie, it hurt. It still does. I don’t resent him for finding love. In fact, I’m happy for him. I’ve seen how much he cares for his girlfriend and her child, and I respect the man he’s trying to be for them. But at the same time, I can’t help but miss my friend. I miss the guy who used to hype me up at the gym, who used to call me at random hours just to talk about life, who made me feel like I had a brother for life.
Now, we’re barely more than strangers.
I guess this is just how life works sometimes. People come and go. Relationships change. But I never expected him to be the one to leave. And no matter how much I try to move on, a part of me still wishes I had my best friend back. | 2025-02-22 00:39:07 | |
| My girlfriend and I have been dating for about seven months now. When we first got together, she confided in me about something very serious she told me that her half-brother had sexually assaulted her multiple times while growing up. She said she wanted me to know this so that I wouldn’t touch certain areas on her body that were sensitive because of what happened. I completely respected her boundaries and made sure to avoid those areas, and whenever I accidentally did, she would quickly remove my hand or tell me.
For the first four months of our relationship, I completely believed her. But then I started discovering that she had lied about a lot of things when we first met. She later admitted that she had been embarrassed about her past, so she had told me certain things that weren’t true. That’s when I started having doubts about her story.
Another thing that makes me doubt her is that she still keeps in touch with this half-brother. I have never met him because her family lives far away. But she still calls and texts him like nothing happened. There was even a time we considered moving to her family’s town, and I brought up the fact that her half-brother lived there. Her response surprised me, she said, “Last time I visited, he didn’t do anything, so if we move there, I’m just hoping he won’t do anything.” That didn’t sound like someone who was genuinely scared of their abuser.
What confused me even more was that she wants to travel all the way to attend his graduation. I told her that he doesn’t deserve her support after what he allegedly did, but she defended him, saying, “Even though he did those things, he’s still my brother.” That statement really threw me off.
She has also never reported this to the police or told anyone in her family about it. As far as I know, I am the only person she has ever told.
I feel guilty for even questioning her, but the way she behaves towards him doesn’t seem like the reaction of someone who has been through that kind of trauma. I don’t have any personal experience with survivors of sexual assault, so I don’t know what is considered normal behavior in this situation. That’s why I need advice.
Am I wrong for having doubts? Do survivors sometimes maintain relationships with their abusers? Or is there a chance that she made this up? I really need some clarity. Please, help me understand if my feelings are valid or if I’m overthinking. | 2025-02-22 00:38:29 | |
| I never imagined that someone I considered family could betray me like this. I’m not sharing this for sympathy but because I need advice. No one should ever have to go through this.
This happened in the morning at my aunt’s house. She had just left to take her children to school, leaving me alone with her husband. I was still in bed, dressed in my usual comfortable clothes, nothing revealing, nothing that could ever justify what happened next.
Suddenly, I was woken up by my aunt’s husband. He said in a calm tone, “There’s a thief in the house.” Half-asleep, I thought he was joking. He often made silly jokes just to annoy me, so I ignored him. But he kept insisting, telling me to wake up.
Before I could fully process what was happening, I felt something that sent shivers down my spine, he hugged me from behind and tried to kiss my neck while repeating, “There’s a thief in the house, wake up.” I froze. My brain couldn’t process what was happening. But as soon as I fully woke up, I felt disgusted and terrified.
I immediately turned around to confirm who was behind me, hoping I was wrong. But no, it was him. He grabbed my wrist tightly, trying to stop me from moving. I fought back with everything I had, struggling to get out of bed. In the process, I accidentally punched his mouth. That’s when I managed to escape.
But what disgusted me the most was what he said afterward. Instead of apologizing or showing any remorse, he twisted the situation to make me feel guilty. He told me I should be grateful because he was only “testing” me. According to him, he wanted to see if I could defend myself in case someone tried to rape me in the future. Then he laughed and said it was just a joke.
At that moment, I wanted to tell my aunt everything. I wanted to expose him. But fear held me back.
My aunt sees her husband as a “good man”,he doesn’t smoke, doesn’t drink alcohol, and doesn’t chase after women. He recently found a good-paying job after being unemployed for a long time, finally giving my aunt and her children some financial stability. If I tell her, I might ruin her marriage and take away the peace she has struggled for.
But on the other hand, I am terrified for their daughters. What if he tries the same thing with them in the future? What if they don’t realize what’s happening to them, just like I didn’t at first? If I stay silent, he could continue living his life as if nothing happened while being a danger to others.
I feel trapped. If I speak up, I might destroy my aunt’s life. But if I stay silent, I might be allowing something far worse to happen in the future.
And now, looking back, I realize this might not have been random. He has made jokes about raping me before. Not once, not twice, but many times. At first, I brushed it off as dark humor. But now I wonder, was he planning this all along?
I’m disgusted. I’m in shock. I don’t even know how to process this. What should I do? | 2025-02-22 00:38:02 | |
| Hello family I need some advise..I dated this girl for about 4yrs wen we both were at our lowest level but we manage to fight through and both families were happy cos it was all ending in praises..I took all the fight since I was the man ..I forgave her so many times cos she made some small mistakes..I went to see her family and they took me in and the father gave me his blessings but unfortunately he die along the way but he ask me not to leave his daughter cos marrying her will make him happy.. during the her father funeral I did all a husband could do to support his wife even tho we were not married and all the funds that were meant for our marriage I gave it to her cos there was fight among her family so each family was doing their own thing.. fast-forward I went to the funeral to help again and came back and that was wen this girl attitude change ,no communication,no texting back and she doesn't return my calls and wen I complained she shout on top of me..her mother beg me to allow her to talk to her but still it went like that ..I decided to confront her to tell me if she is no more interested in the relationship but this girl have cheeky answers so I told her fine is like she has move on..things went like this and I could let her go so I involve my family and friends who knows her very well for her to forget everything so that we will come back but all didn't work..she told her friends we were on break ooo charlie..it has been 8months wen this happen so I chatted her friend who is in the same house with her to try and help me know my stand and this her friend told me to move on cos she know my relationship with her friend won't work again..I didn't take her friend words true so I ask my uncle to come in so we call her and ask her what she thinks about the relationship but she couldn't answer ..my uncle has to ask her repeatedly till she told him she has move on..why are some ladies like this??u have move on and u couldn't tell me and kept me in pains🥹.... | 2025-02-17 14:29:07 | |
| So, I found out back in October 2024 that my wife, 33, was having an emotional affair with her boss. I tried everything to save our 16-year relationship, including marriage counseling, but she has made it clear over the past few months that she’s not willing to put in any effort. We have two kids, and I wanted to keep our family together, but it’s obvious now that she doesn’t care. We live together in Florida,US.
Even though I was reluctant to let go, I finally accepted that divorce is the only way forward. I started taking steps to separate things, making her handle her own bills like her car and phone, and even getting a divorce mediation lawyer to speed up the process. But she’s doing nothing to move it forward. Instead, she claims I’m being selfish and emotionally manipulative just because I wanted to save our marriage. Meanwhile, she’s always out late drinking with her friends, saying she deserves to enjoy life and can’t prioritize being a wife and mother all the time.
Then came Valentine’s Day. She told me she was staying at a hotel her mother booked for her to “take a break from everything.” The next day, she came back home hungover, carrying flowers she supposedly bought for herself, a bag with flower petals, a heart-shaped blanket, alcohol, and pizza, then slept all day. I can’t prove it, but deep down, I know she spent the night with her boss while I was home with the kids because it was my weekend with them.
I’ve reached my limit, I need her out of the house as soon as possible. She claims she doesn’t have money for rent and a security deposit, but she somehow always finds money to spend on other things. She has also refused to contribute to household bills. I feel completely used, like my feelings and opinions don’t even matter. So now, I’m pushing even harder to finalize the divorce paperwork quickly instead of waiting for her to get it done.
For the sake of our kids, who don’t yet know about the divorce, I’m trying to keep things cordial at home. I plan to keep the house so they can grow up in a stable environment since I can afford it and she can’t. The problem is, I feel like I have to walk on eggshells to prevent her from changing her mind about our agreement on splitting assets. I really want to be petty and throw her out, but I know that in the long run, staying calm benefits me more.
Right now, I don’t know how to make her leave any faster without giving her money, which I don’t want to do until the paperwork is signed because I don’t want to get played even more. If I act out, I stand to lose more than she does. As things stand, the mediation agreement means I’ll have more time with the kids and ownership of the house, which is all I care about at this point. | 2025-02-17 12:01:16 | |
| My boyfriend and were lying in bed together one evening, just cuddling under a warm blanket. We weren’t doing anything special, just enjoying each other’s company, the kind of quiet moments that make a relationship feel safe and comfortable. The room was dimly lit, the fan humming softly in the background, and the scent of my lavender body lotion lingered in the air. Everything was calm, peaceful, until something happened that I never imagined would turn into such a big deal.
Without any warning, I farted. It wasn’t intentional, it just happened. You know how sometimes, your body betrays you at the worst moments? That was me. I wasn’t even thinking about it. Before I could say anything, He immediately jumped out of bed like someone had poured hot water on him. He flung the blanket off himself, stood up, and started getting dressed.
"Okay, I’m done with you," he said sharply.
I blinked, still lying there, confused. "What?"
He sighed heavily, shaking his head as he pulled on his trousers. "Things like this is very annoying" His voice was full of irritation, as if I had done something unforgivable.
I sat up, still processing what was happening. "I understand," I said cautiously. "But, that was completely unintentional. It’s also natural. Everyone farts."
Instead of calming down, his face twisted in frustration. "Why would you fart in the bed, under the blanket?" He sounded genuinely disgusted, like I had committed some kind of offense against him.
I was speechless. My heart sank. Was this really happening? Was my relationship of two years about to hit a rough patch over something as simple and human as this? I had always believed we were comfortable with each other, that we had reached a point where we could be ourselves without judgment. But now, watching him get dressed and acting like I had ruined his night, I wasn’t so sure.
I felt embarrassed, almost ashamed. I never thought something so minor could make him react this way. I mean, I had cooked for this man, done laundry for him, even nursed him when he was sick, but one small fart, and suddenly, he was "done"?
I sat there in silence, my mind racing. Was I wrong? Should I have held it in? But how could I have, when it wasn’t something I could control? Should I apologize? Or should I be offended that he reacted so harshly over something so normal?
Now, I don’t even know how to feel. If he’s this upset over a small fart, what will happen when bigger challenges come? What if I get sick one day and he has to take care of me? What if I get pregnant and have all the bodily changes that come with it? Will he find me disgusting then too?
I don’t know if I should talk to him about it, or just let it go. But one thing is for sure, this situation has made me question a lot about our relationship. | 2025-02-17 12:00:15 | |
| this is a very difficult and practical situation I find myself in and will urgently need advice, from your noble platform and it's enthusiastic followers. My case is that, I happily got married to a lady I love so much for the past 1 year. It happened that I travelled abroad for an official work and will be there for 3 years. In view of this, I worked out the necessary documentations for her to join me and luckily, she joined me about a month ago.
my huge dilemma now is that, my lovely wife screams the world when getting orgasm during sex. A week ago, my wife screamed while reaching orgasm but something strange happened. Just after that morning's performance while resting, we heard a knock on our flat.Shockingly, It was the police at the door and according to them, 2 of our neighbours called to complain about a lady screaming for help and that, they therefore suspected an abuse case.I had to explain everything to them even though, they doubted it. Eventually, we had to sign a bond not to disturb our neighbours again.My worry now is that, for days now, I could not touch my wife even though, I feel for sex. How do we solve this problem because my wife can't do without the screaming.Advice needed! | 2025-02-17 08:28:44 | |
| So something happened recently that made me question why we Ghanaians like to lie so much. Honestly, I don’t understand it.
I live with a roommate, and one day, she suddenly started complaining that her money was missing. She seemed really upset, and I was just minding my own business when she walked up to me and asked, "Did you take my money?" Of course, I told her no. I mean, how could she even think that of me? I was offended, but I kept my cool.
Then I decided to ask her how much she had lost, just out of curiosity. She sighed dramatically and said, "Ohh, like 2,000 cedis." The moment she said that, I just looked at her and shook my head. I didn’t even argue. I just turned around and went straight to my room because this girl was obviously lying through her teeth. Why? Because the money I took was only 800 cedis!
So tell me, why do people lie like this? If she had said she lost 800 cedis, maybe I would have felt a little guilty, maybe even considered giving it back. But 2,000? Ah! That’s how I knew she was lying. People like her are the reason I can’t stand dishonesty. If you’re going to accuse someone of something, at least be truthful about it.
The funniest part is, after making all that noise, she still hasn’t found her so-called "2,000 cedis." And me? I’m just here, chilling with the 800 cedis, and i don't feel bad about it and this is why i keep on wondering why some people like to exaggerate so much. Like I said, there is a reason which made me took the money and I don't want to talk about it. No insults please, read and pass. | 2025-02-17 08:20:28 | |
| REBECCA AYIM, I just wanna let you know I really love 💕 you and would do anything for you... Roses 🌹 are Red ♥️ & Violets are Blue 💙... Happy 💌 | 2025-02-14 20:46:38 | |
| REBECCA AYIM, I just wanna let you know I really love 💕 you and would do anything for you... Roses 🌹 are Red ♥️ & Violets are Blue 💙... Happy 💌 | 2025-02-14 20:46:37 | |
| REBECCA AYIM, I just wanna let you know I really love 💕 you and would do anything for you... Roses 🌹 are Red ♥️ & Violets are Blue 💙... Happy 💌 | 2025-02-14 20:46:37 | |
| my wife is three months pregnant Since the beginning of the pregnancy, she wakes up every morning and says she wants to go to sleep at the house of Kevo who is her friend, I always accompany her to the house of Kevo every night, afraid of my son being born with problems in case I don't satisfy her craving.
Two weeks ago she said she wanted to call Kevo and she called him love in front of me. She called this friend Kevin and they spent two hours talking and calling each other "love". Before yesterday she woke up and said she wanted to sleep with Kevin here at home in our bed, yesterday I let them sleep together and I went to sleep on the carpet in the living room. I did all this for her and my son. Today she woke up and said she wanted to live in our house only with Kevin . Got my basic stuff packed and I’m looking for a house to rent until my son is born. Being a man is not easy, especially understanding and who truly loves his wife. Very few like me in the world. | 2025-02-14 20:10:49 | |
| I can't hold my tears. What did I do to deserve this from this guy? Thought I was in a relationship with this guy. Was always checking up but being aired, calling and being ignored and ghosted. I gathered courage to ask him who l am to him yesterday after crying so much. Only for this guy to tell me I'm his personal person. I thanked him for telling me the truth and he replied with you are always welcome. This was someone always calling, texting and helping me financially. He changed after banging me several times. Painful thing is that he is always posting his girlfriend to mock me after banging me. He just posted his girlfriend this afternoon after our conversation yesterday. He always refused to pick my calls immediately after l left his room. | 2025-02-14 20:06:38 | |
| I’m a 31-year-old guy, and I’ve been seeing this girl 25, for about a year now. During this time, I’ve done my best to be a good partner, getting her the things she wants, supporting her emotionally, and basically being the “nice guy.” But despite my efforts, she’s broken every single promise she’s ever made to me.
Last year, she forgot my birthday, even after I reminded her three times because I had a feeling she would. It hurt, but I let it go. Today, she broke another promise and said some things that really cut deep. Instead of confronting her, I played along. I told her how much I love her and even hinted at a big surprise I had planned for her tomorrow (Valentine’s Day). We talked about all the nice things we were going to do and the gifts I was going to give her.
But here’s the twist, I’m not actually planning anything. Instead, I’ve decided to ghost her for good. This is the first time I’ve ever felt like doing something that could be considered “bad,” but strangely, I’m at peace with it. I know it won’t make me happy, but I also won’t feel sad about it.
After thinking about it for a while, though, I’ve decided to take the higher road. Instead of ghosting her, I’m going to break up with her properly. It’s not about being the villain anymore; it’s about respecting myself and ending things in a way that allows both of us to move on. | 2025-02-14 19:59:34 | |
| What's up with you? | 2025-02-13 06:43:16 | |
| My boyfriend and I just discovered that we are HIv positive. He’s claiming not to have ever cheated on me and is wondering how we contracted it. So I went to see my boss to confirm from him if he was HIv positive and he said yes, adding that he had been on his drugs (ARVs) effectively for a year so he wasn’t thinking I could get it. He’s the only one I’ve slept with aside my bf so I’m convinced he’s responsible for the trauma my bf and I are going through right now.
I can’t confess to my boyfriend that I slept with someone but I see he’s so worried. He’s been thinking so hard and it hurts me that my boss did this to me. My man is sad, I am hurt too and it hurts me more to see him think so hard. I only slept with my boss thrice and it was even cuz he seduced me. Deep down I want to tell my bf the truth that I’m the cause but he would h@te me and even leave me so I have to somehow blame him for it. After all, everyone knows it’s men that cheat so I’ve been crying and blaming him for doing this to us but I’m not happy about it.
Bro Kay, I know the truth and wish to set him free, please what do I do? Is it too late to speak the truth?? | 2025-02-12 09:16:00 | |
| Judge me if I did something wrong. This my boyfriend came to visit me with his friends for the first time and when i sat in his car, i put my legs on his dashboard and he got angry that I am being disrespectful. What pains me was, he said it infront of his friends. I also got angry and left the car and till now he still hasn't called to apologize for how he acted. I mean how can you get angry just because I put my legs on your dashboard?
What's your take? | 2025-02-12 09:14:22 | |
| I need to get something off my chest, but please don’t judge me. I’m with this guy currently, his name is Daniel, we’ve been dating for a little over a year. He’s a good guy, caring, responsible, and treats me well. But there’s something I’m struggling with, which I haven’t told anyone. I’ve been cheating on him with my ex for almost a year now.
I know it’s wrong, but I just can’t seem to stop. My ex, he’s just different. There’s something about him that keeps pulling me back, especially when it comes to being in bed/sezzz. No matter how hard I try to move on, I keep missing that part of our relationship. And before I know it, I find myself right back in his arms.
The crazy part is, I actually feel guilty every time we are done but before I know it, I’ve gone to him again, sometimes I could visit him everyday in the week, I never get enough. Though Daniel is also very good in bed, I just love everything about my ex when it comes to love making. His body, his moans and how he grabs me. He f$$ks me like he needs me, it’s crazy! Daniel doesn’t deserve this. He’s more like that guy every woman wants cuz he’s focused and he cares for his own. He’s done nothing but love me, and here I am sneaking around with someone I should have left in my past. But Bro Kwaku, the truth is, I don’t know if I can let go of my ex completely. It’s like I’m stuck between what feels good and what I know is right
I don’t know how long I can keep this up, but I just needed to talk to someone about it. What do you think I should do? | 2025-02-12 09:13:28 | |
| I’m a 40-year-old mother of two sons, and I’ve been raising them alone since 2006. It’s been a challenging journey, but I’ve always tried my best to provide for them and guide them through life. Now that they’re older, I’m facing some difficulties that I’m not sure how to handle, and I’m hoping to get some advice from this community.
My younger son is 19 years old. Over the years, he’s developed a condescending attitude toward everyone, including family and friends. He’s also been involved in behaviors that worry me deeply, petty theft, frequent fighting, smoking, and a strong dislike for school. He decided to drop out of secondary school to learn a trade, and thankfully, he’s been calmer and more focused since then. Still, his overall attitude and choices concern me, and I often wonder how I can help him grow into a more respectful and responsible person.
My older son is 21. He’s always been very intelligent and spends most of his time reading novels and watching documentaries. He helps me with my petty trading business, which I appreciate, but he has an antisocial personality. He rarely opens up about his feelings or thoughts, making it hard to connect with him on a deeper level. Recently, I found a piece of Wee (marijuana) in his room, and I was completely shocked. I never expected this from him, and I’m heartbroken trying to figure out when or why he started using it.
Since discovering the wee, I haven’t treated him any differently. I still show him the same love and care, but I’m unsure how to address this issue. I don’t want to push him away or make him feel judged, but as his mother, I feel it’s my responsibility to guide him toward healthier choices. I cried to myself after finding it, feeling a mix of sadness, guilt, and helplessness. I want to talk to him about it in a way that encourages honesty and understanding, but I’m not sure how to approach him, especially since he’s so reserved.
I’m really struggling with how to handle this situation. How can I confront my older son about the blunt without making him shut down? How can I better connect with both of my sons, especially given their different personalities and challenges? I want to be the best mother I can be, but I feel overwhelmed and unsure of what to do next. | 2025-02-12 09:08:53 | |
| I don't understand this. I dating this single mother. I am 25 she's 34. her daughter is 11 years she and I have a great relationship. Today
I am home. It's my off day so she came over with her kid she wasn't feeling well but she has to go to work so she's leaving her with me. She leaves her with me mostly so l am cool. I have been taking care of the kid the whole day. She's cold so l gave her some soup and she took her meds. I was sitting on the couch with her and watching some movies and we fell asleep. She was lying on my side wearing one of my big tops she always does that and her mother has never complained so her mom came home and this is the problem oh. Why am I sleeping bare-chested with her kid who is in my big top? I was like oh I was about to talk naa she's like I should not explain na she knows I'll lie. she just took her kid and left. She called me just now to apologize that her daughter explained. She's sorry but honestly the thing pain me. | 2025-02-10 13:46:02 | |
| Drama at work today. So we have been ordering banku and tilapia from this woman at work who comes every Thursday and the food is top-notch. It costs about 150 though so some of us save to buy it. Today, a friend of mine has been craving and saving all week to buy this food. He got so excited to eat it that he came to work at 6:30 am. The woman is coming at 12!
He was jittery and excited the entire morning and was even doing other people's work. He set a timer on his phone and kept counting down till noon.
At 10:30 am exactly, I heard a loud shout and wail from his desk. Everyone and I mean everyone stopped working to look at him. He had tears in his eyes and started shouting my money is missing. He scattered his table and was about to go crazy looking for his money. I joined in to help him search for it while the others continued working. We looked everywhere and didn't find it. This broke my guy and he went down immediately. Stopped working and started listening to heartbreak songs.
After a few minutes, he got up quickly and I saw him head to HR. He went there to complain and HR decided to allow him to watch the CCTV and see who took the money. He went and watched it, came back at 11:30 and didn't say another word. He sat and continued his work like nothing happened. You could feel anger emanating from him and we thought he would get up and punch someone and then accuse the person but nope. My bro played it cool.
Noon, everyone started heading downstairs cause she had come. I walked up to him and before I could get to his desk, he raised just one finger, looked at me, and said go. I know what I will do the person but nope. My bro played it cool.
Noon, everyone started heading downstairs cause she had come. I walked up to him and before I could get to his desk, he raised just one finger, looked at me, and said go. I know what I will do I went downstairs and went to join a long queue. 12:30pm. I finished buying and went upstairs with some other guys. When we got to our floor, I saw Bro standing in front of the glass window with his hands behind his back. He slowly turned to look at us and didn't smile. He just nodded and sat down again. We all placed sticky notes with our names on our food and came back to the office to finish some work. 12:48, he stands up and walks into the kitchen.
12:53, he posts on our Platform a selfie with food opened in front of him with part eaten. Like 6 people all stood up and rushed to the kitchen to check on theirs. I was behind them We entered and he was devouring food with water by him and he wasn't taking it easy. Everyone grabs theirs except this one guy who looks confused and shocked. Let us call the confused guy Kwame and my guy Kofi. Kofi continues eating and slowly lifts his head to look at Kwame. He spoke and said you should have bought more shrimp. Kwame got angry and was about to move to Kofi when the boys held him. He started screaming threats and everything but Kofi didn't shake.
He just kept on eating and started slowing down. Kofi actually paused, got up and stretched and then Sat to continue. Bro the thing was so funny we all started laughing except one person. They started pushing and pulling Kwame out of the kitchen as he continued with the threats. Insults, threats, everything. Immediately he left, Kofi got up and threw the rest of the food away and then took a picture and posted it with the caption mid. Then he washed his hands and slowly walked back to his desk while looking at Kwame in the face. He got to his desk and then stood up abruptly and walked to Kwame stretched out his palm and said my change because he didn't buy an egg
Someone held Kwame's hand mid-air before the slap landed. The HR came out soon after and pulled them both to her office. They came back out and both went home. We are waiting for part 2 tomorrow | 2025-02-10 12:28:43 | |
| My husband is making us fly home from our honeymoon after just one day because he found out I sent my ex a simple goodbye text on the morning of our wedding. It was just a goodbye text, for goodness' sake! Not an 'I will always love you' text. Not a 'drop everything and meet me at the altar' text. I needed to say goodbye to gain closure on the unmarried part of my life. Please tell me, did I do anything wrong, or is my husband overreacting? It was just a harmless text to an ex." - A lady wants to know. | 2025-02-10 12:21:45 | |
| ,I wish I do not have a heart to love, but there is this guy I met at my work place that’s 2021,we became friends and were checking up on you each other. I however, developed this strong feelings for him.He buys me gifts on my birthdays,Christmas and I also do the same.Sometime ago, i informed him about the kind of feelings I have for him.He will sometimes smile and change the topic entirely from my statement.I am now in the tertiary institution supported by him,his elder brother is paying my fees while he pays for my transportation,books and other stuff. To be honest, this feelings get stronger each day and I don't know what to do.He is single and always invite me to family parties and many more, but I just do not know what to do because he doesn't say anything, when I tell him about my feelings. I love this guy soo much but don't know what to do anymore. What do I do? 🙏🏾 | 2025-02-10 12:17:45 | |
| Good morning
I am 25 years old. I have a boyfriend, and we have been together for 4 years. He is still a student, and I have finished school and have my degree. 📚🌟
Life is tough, so I came to work as a nanny for a man. He is 37 years old and has two children, a 7-year-old and a 2-year-old. Their mother is no longer with them. 😔👶
I have been here for two years now. The man pays me my salary on time. He is a good person. Sometimes, when he has parties, he takes me and the kids with him. He tells me to dress nicely and sometimes buys me new clothes.
Twice, he has introduced me as his fiance. It made me feel a bit shy, but I got over it. 😳💞
Last November, after a small party at his house, we kn~acked Since then, things have felt cold between us. He even said sorry for what happened. ❄️💔
Last week, while the kids were sleeping, he called me to talk. He said he knows I have a boyfriend, but he wants me to be his wife. 💍🤔
He wants to meet my parents and do everything needed (like a dowry) because he loves me, and so do the kids. He plans to move to Canada soon with his family and wants me to come with him. ✈️🇨🇦
Guys, I need your help to decide. I have some feelings for him, but I truly love my boyfriend.
I feel lost... | 2025-02-10 12:15:06 | |
| I'm a married woman who finds herself in a very tight corner of life. The fact is that, I am a corporate lady but a very private hook-up lady, before I got married 3 years ago to my husband. To be fair, my female friends envy my success but the truth is that, they do not know what I do privately, to be the person I am. Fortunately, I got married to my dear husband, but started the hook-up thing once a while.my serious concern is that just as I accepted my 3rd meeting with a man who liked my profile, it turned out to be a disaster. Unfortunately, the man turned out to be a friend to my husband. I decided I won't sleep with him but he rather insisted to do it or tell my husband. Eventually, he had me for free, without paying anything and I lost 2,000 dollars just like that. My issue is whether am safe or he will still tell my husband everything, after sleeping with me. What should I do? | 2025-02-10 12:12:26 | |
| May God bless you and help you | 2025-02-10 09:02:55 | |
| Am a married woman but am still into my ex boyfriend, we were supposed to get married but his not yet financially stable, this guy is so good in bed. I have 1 child my husband thinks is his but is actually for my ex. I was 4weeks pregnant for my ex but he said he is not ready and I should ab&t it.Then I decided to put it on my husband who was my 2nd boyfriend then I do call him my 2nd option .my husband is soooo p00r in bed, so lazy in bed. Am just staying with him because his rich any lady in my shoes will do same . My problem now is since 2yrs ago my ex said I will be giving him 500k every month for servicing my engine since my husband can't do his job or else he will come and tell my husband everything, that my son is not for him , I told him I'm not interested in the sez anymore (tough I still wish to be getting it from him)but his still standing on his words is been 2yrs now am giving him 500k every month, I want to stop.please what should I do. I need advice. | 2025-02-09 09:44:06 | |
| my wife is three months pregnant Since the beginning of the pregnancy, she wakes up every morning and says she wants to go to sleep at the house of Kevo who is her friend, I always accompany her to the house of Kevo every night, afraid of my son being born with problems in case I don't satisfy her craving.
Two weeks ago she said she wanted to call Kevo and she called him love in front of me. She called this friend Kevin and they spent two hours talking and calling each other "love". Before yesterday she woke up and said she wanted to sleep with Kevin here at home in our bed, yesterday I let them sleep together and I went to sleep on the carpet in the living room. I did all this for her and my son. Today she woke up and said she wanted to live in our house only with Kevin . Got my basic stuff packed and I’m looking for a house to rent until my son is born. Being a man is not easy, especially understanding and who truly loves his wife. Very few like me in the world. 🥺😭😭😭 | 2025-02-09 09:41:28 | |
| I am a lady who is married for the past 3 years and currently 7 months pregnant with our first child.I am here to seek your help to help me take a decision in my dilemma. My issue is that, I met and fell in love with this guy, when my pregnancy was 3 months old. Even though I told him I was pregnant, he still told me he loves me and that made me fell for him more. my dilemma now is that ever since I met him, my husband has not touched me in bed again. This is because he told me not to allow him, so I told my husband that, the gynaecologist says the pregnancy is a bit delicate hence we should not have sex. He is more than happy not to touch me however, I am busily been sorted out by my man. Unfortunately, he has travelled out of the country and would not be back before, I put to bed. I really feel horny and wants my husband badly however, I don't know what explanation to give him, against instructions by the gynaecologist. How do I go about this? | 2025-02-09 09:40:14 | |
| I'm a young man who is (23 yrs old) dating a beautiful girl who is (56 yrs old) everything is perfect in the house, the problem is my step kids John & Maria. They don't respect me at all John is (36 yrs old) and Maria is the first born she is (39 yrs old) . I'm even afraid to beat them with Sampok because kids of this new generation have lot of rights. All i want is for them to respect me as their STEP FATHER. Please guys advice me how do i deal with my step kids?😭😭 | 2025-02-09 09:38:35 | |
| my 10 years of happy marriage, almost came to an end 5 months ago. However, after saving the situation as a wife, I am rather facing divorce for my good deeds. The issue is that, my husband was scheduled for a delicate medical surgery to save his life. Our savings at the time could not support it and families were also, not in the position to support.the only option was to look for loan to do it. Loan requirements and approval periods however, were delaying.Luckily, my ex who is a friend, offered help by paying for all the medical bills. When this was made known to my husband later, he got annoyed and really asked for a divorce. Do I deserve this harsh decision by my husband? | 2025-02-08 17:42:24 | |
| I have a confession to make. In the past, I was a very rough person, involved with numerous women. However, there was one lady who caught my attention, so we started a relationship. Things were going smoothly, and I thought we had a good thing going, until something strange happened.Interestingly, another woman appeared, and I believe she was sent by a marine demon to destroy me. She manipulated me, using her powers to control my actions and under her spell, I finally broke up with my girlfriend.the consequences of my actions were severe because my girlfriend left in pain and found a sugar daddy, who eventually took me to a police station. I'm not proud of what happened, and I'm ashamed to admit it. However, I'm trying to move forward and learn from my mistakes. To be honest,she is someone full of luck and brought me good luck and favour, when around me.my problem now is that, she has blocked me everywhere, and she doesn't even want to talk to me.She is currently in another relationship in another state, but I still try my best to win her back. Sometimes, I even send her money to take care of herself, buying hair extensions, but she doesn't even appreciate my efforts.Despite all these, I am still holding on to the hope that we can rekindle our relationship. Can this kind of relationship work again? I'm seeking advice and guidance on how to navigate this complex situation and make things right with the one I love. | 2025-02-08 17:38:53 | |
| Good evening
I have tears in my eyes. I am legally married and have two children with my wife. Before we met, she had two boys. I will be brief so I dont make this too long. 🥹🥹
I own a two-story house that I inherited, and I have tenants living there. I built my own house. I told my wife that the money from our house, which has three modern studios and one apartment, is for her. I will take care of the money from the two-story house.
Everything was going well; I always gave her money for our monthly food and I paid for the childrens school. I even bought their clothes and snacks. 🏠💔
One day, I went on a two-month trip. When I returned in the evening, I wanted to be enter Jerμsal£m , but she refused me. Note that before my trip, she often said no. Out of respect for her, I stopped trying. 😒😒
The next morning, before I left for work, my wife said she felt s¡ck. I asked her if she was okay, and she said yes, but I thought something was off. At work, I talked to my best friend, who advised me to check her phone to find out why she was pushing me away. 😭😭
I regr£tted looking for the truth. I found the password, which was her grandmother's name. I searched and discovered her secret:
she was still sl££ping with her ex, the father of her children. In her messages, she said, I am pregnant again. What will I tell my husband? | 2025-02-08 17:37:31 | |
| Good morning
My story goes like this I am a lady of 23 years old.
Am from Ghana my problem is that I got pregnant last year June out of wedlΩck. My parents found out and sent me out of the house so I went to live with my boyfriend. but things become hard for him and I am not working.
At first when I was not pregnant i usually do some part time jobs from which I was able to save gh1000, but I used that money to buy some baby items because my boyfriend was unable to.🥹🥹
I am now seven months and our rent is due. It will expired in March and my boyfriend started giving me attitude. At first i didn't know his intentions but last two weeks he asked me to go plead with my parents so I can go and deliver at their place but they refuse to let in and told me not to come near the house 😭😭😭.
Mind you I live with my father and my stepmom,I don't even know my mother my boyfriend too didn't introduce me to any of his family members. I have pressure him and did all i can but he refuses hmmmm. 😱😱
my boyfriend has packed out of the house three days ago and blΩck me every where I don't know where to go and find him. We didn't date that much only three months and I got pregnant.🥹
My problem now is i don't know what to do because I know very well that next month the landlord will thrΩw me out of the house 🏡.
Hmmm i don't have money to eat talk of renting house.
I have gone to plead with my father but he has even refused to let me and the elders in. At the mentions of my name he got angry 😡😡.
Now I have nowhere to go my stepsisters and brothers also don't want to hear anything about me.
It is a lot but let me end here.
I don't know if any of your f0llowers is going to help With some m0ney 💰 to rent the house again.
Please I am begging anyone in the name of God to help me with little money . I know the country is hard but I really don't have any choice 😭😭😭.
I know people may ask why am not working when I get pregnant from the beginning, it is because I have complications from the beginning and doctors asked me not to work because my babes are two (twins)😭😭
Even if they want evidence I will probably provide my antenatal book as evidence of my pregnancy
I am from the western region of Ghana Bibiani Western north.
Thank you all.
My name is Leticia Osman. | 2025-02-08 17:11:50 | |
| I received a call from my ex late one night. Seeing the time she called, I thought something was wrong. We hadn’t spoken for over six months. I picked up and asked what the problem was. She responded softly, “Nothing is wrong. I’m just missing you. I’m here thinking about all the good times.”
We ended up talking about all the things that went wrong and what we could have done to prevent the situation. At one point, she said, “Aren’t we talking too much? Should I come over, or is there someone else there with you?”
Less than an hour later, she was knocking on my door. As soon as I opened it, she jumped and hugged me. I didn’t have time to think or ask any questions. The next moment, we were taking our clothes off. A few minutes later, we were picking our clothes up off the floor. I thought she was going to stay the night, but she got dressed and told me she had to leave.
She disappeared into the night, and I didn’t see her again until she knocked on my door weeks later to tell me she was pregnant. I was like, “Huh, what did you say?”
She said she was just letting me know but that I didn’t have to do anything. While I was arguing my innocence, she stood there smiling. She said, “It’s okay, whatever you think. I’ll keep it.”
She walked out the door, and I haven’t seen her since. Her family said she travelled but wouldn’t tell me where she went. I contacted her on Facebook, but she blocked me. Currently, I have no way to reach her, let alone see her. I don’t even know for sure if she was serious about the pregnancy or if she was playing a joke. And if she was serious, was the pregnancy really mine, as she claimed?
This is what keeps me awake at night. I know nothing for certain, so I can’t prevent it or prepare for it. She has a habit of reappearing out of nowhere, so I’m scared that one night she’ll show up with a baby in her arms, calling it mine. I want closure. If it’s mine and she wants to keep it, that’s fine, but I need to know and be mentally prepared for the future. But now that I can’t find her, what can I do to put my mind at ease and live a normal life? This situation is slowly eating me away. | 2025-02-08 17:09:42 | |
| I am the CEO of a private firm which is doing very well under my leadership, together with my team. I am however, currently going through a difficult test in both my marriage and my office. My difficulty is that, while I am happily married and also has a good and well paid job, there is a huge problem at my office with potentials of causing both my marriage and job.my bosses' daughter who wants a knack from me, is making my life difficult at the office. I discussed this with my wife and I believe I should let my boss know about the issue generating the tension between her and myself, but my wife thinks otherwise. This is really disturbing my job, as she is also the head of admin and HR. What should be the way forward for me? | 2025-02-08 17:08:00 | |
| My name is Joël, and what I have been going through for 6 months now sends chills down my spine.
I am 42 years old and I live in Bénin. I have always been a logical man. I did not believe in witchcraft until I married Claire She seemed perfect, too perfect, really. She was beautiful, kind, and always took care of me like no one else ever did.
But there was something strange that I could not explain. Since we got married, she always served me wonderful meals. The food was always hot and tasty. But guess what? I have never seen her cook. Never.
Colyfrank 🥰
I started to have doubts. One night, I woke up late, around 3 AM. I wanted to get a drink of water and what I saw nearly made me lose my mind. Claire was in the kitchen, but she was not cooking. She was talking to herself, in front of an empty pot.
I hid and watched. She whispered in a language I did not understand, moving her hands around And suddenly, food appeared in the pot. Oh, I saw FRIED APPEAR LIKE MAGIC! I stepped back quickly and made a noise.
She turned around. Her eyes were not the same. They were dark and deep, like a bottomless pit. She looked at me and whispered, asking why I was awake.
Colyfrank 🥰
I fumbled and told a lie, then rushed back to the bedroom, but I could not sleep. Since that day, I do not eat anything at home. But how do I tell her that I have discovered her secret?
Even worse every night, she wakes up at 3 AM and continues to make these meals. How can I find out who I really live with?
How can I get rid of this without her realizing that I know? | 2025-02-08 17:06:26 | |
| when I newly met my husband newly he was everything I wanted. He was kind hardworking and full of life . As soon as we got married I realised that his desire for knacking was out of this world. At first I thought it was just the excitement of newlyweds, but as years went by it was done on me that he is just a maniac.
Mama this man request for knaking every second as far as he is at home. The only time he don't ask for knacking is when he is not home.
When I had our first child immediately I got home from hospital he gave me space for two days and started knacking from the third day. He no even allow me heal or make my period stop. I begged everything for were. Even after all the warning the Dr gave him he no even listen. I no how my body worry me that time yet I endure it. I have 3kids for him the same way he keep knacking me immediately I come back home from hospital. This last one that's the third child the experience was not funny cos I started bleexx ding because there was no time to heal or even rest. He no even dey reason my side all he is after is to knackered and get satisfied. I am not happy at all. This third one almost kpai my life. I don't even know what to do. This man is something else. Even when I dey do period he dey Knack me up and down. Please my people this lady needs advice. | 2025-02-08 17:05:26 | |
| I was at my boyfriend’s place this morning, we have been dating for over two years. He asked me to come and spend the night and I did. So I woke up this morning trying to fix breakfast but he kept insisting that I left cuz he had somewhere going. As early as 6:40 am, he had taken his bath, dressed up and was pressuring me not to do anything for him but to leave. It was awkward so I kept acting reluctantly, I even suggested he left for wherever and leave the key for me but he won’t agree. He even became angry at some point and threatened to throw me out so I went to wash down. Just when I came out of the bathroom, someone knocked, that was around 9am. He asked me to dress up quickly and leave, he also asked me not to say anything when the person comes in. Lo and behold, it was another lady screaming his name, “Babe!, Babe!, open me”.
Long story short, he wasn’t going anywhere, his other lady was coming this morning and he didn’t want her to meet me so he was pressuring me to leave. He now introduced me to her as his younger sister, adding that I was just on my way out. I couldn’t take it so I told the lady I was his girlfriend and we’ve been dating over two years. She also introduced herself and said they’ve been dating for almost 4 months. Then the girl said I should leave cuz it was obvious my BF didn’t want me anymore. I slapp£d her face for saying such a thing to me and we started fighting. My bf carried me outside and locked the door. So he chose someone he just met over me😭. I knocked on the door and called him names but they didn’t mind me. I came home this morning crying. Meanwhile, last night he was promising me marriage and forcing me to do all sort of styles for him😭. Why are men like this? | 2025-02-08 17:01:36 | |
| My husband cheated on me with a 22-year-old girl. I don't know what he promised the girl but a number called me one day and it was the girl telling me to inform my husband she was pregnant for him. After confrontations, he said it was true. I asked him why he cheated and he said he was feeling unhappy. Unhappy in the sense that I wasn't giving him attention enough and was always fixated on the kids. For someone who had another child two years after having twins, I subconsciously and
unintentionally would be divided in my attention. He never spoke about it to me or raised it in a
conversation. The best he could do was be in another woman's vagina. A young woman for that matter. I told him that since a 22-year-old vagina gave him so much happiness, he should just end the marriage so I don't stand in his happy way. I've moved to a new apartment and my phone doesn't stop buzzing. I mean what's the apologies for? I don't want to be a barrier in someone's happiness so I said go. What's the begging for? Does he expect me to stay so he continues finding happiness elsewhere? | 2025-02-08 16:57:52 | |
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| Bro Kay, two years ago I left campus to visit my bf in Accra. My parents sent me to school to study and come during vacations, but I used to come to Accra almost every weekend that I’m free to be with my bf and leave early on Monday or Sunday evening back to school, KNUST.
One day, the 23–seater sprinter I boarded was involved an accident. That weekend, I was coming with another friend who was also coming to see her BF, her name was Debora. Of all the weekends I’ve gone home, that was the weekend I didn’t feel like going home at all, especially cuz I had an exam on Monday, the following week. I tried to convince my bf but he begged and assured me he was going to help me study and a whole lot so I compromised. When I entered the bus at Tech junction that afternoon, I prayed for a safe journey for the first time. I barely even remember to pray but I was feeling so heavy that I felt like praying and I did.
Hmmmm, near Suhum, our bus was involved in an accident and it was only the driver and I that survived. 2018, I don’t know if you heard. Deborah and everyone else was gone. I sustained just a little injury and though I was suffocating, I was rescued on time. I was at the hospital but was discharged on Saturday to go home. My bf came to see me after I called him that Friday to update him. When he was leaving, I told him I was done with the relationship. He thought I was playing but that was it. I never saw him to date. I focused on my education and left men alone. I’ve ever since served God diligently. Today I’m a superior at my workplace, though I’m not even 30 yet. I am married with a child. I’m sharing this because of the story you shared on YouTube. There’s indeed God.
This has been my testimony ever since. I confessed everything to my parents as well. I don’t care what anyone says but, I know God actually gave me a second chance. | 2025-02-06 15:05:48 | |
| I need advice on a situation.
So, I got my heart broken in 2021, and it took me two years to heal. Fast forward, I moved to a new location in 2023. By 2024, I was finally ready to date again.
I met this girl who seemed reserved and quiet, the type of woman I’ve always wanted. I’m an introvert and mostly work from home, so it took a lot of courage to approach her. After a few days of talking, I asked if she was in a relationship, and she said no. I made it clear that I was interested in her and ready for a serious relationship. She agreed, and everything seemed to be going well.
She lived nearby, so we spent a lot of time together at my place. I really loved this girl; she was exactly my type. At first, I noticed nothing unusual, but after some time, I kept seeing her standing in quiet spots with a guy from the neighborhood. She told me he was just a friend, so I tried not to overthink it. But I started noticing how they flirted a lot.
One time, I caught them in the act. I had been calling her, but she ignored my calls. When I saw them together, I asked her to stop whatever she was doing and come home. Instead, she told me I wasn’t the boss of her and that I couldn’t control her. I was stunned.
The next day, she came to apologize, and I forgave her. But it didn’t stop. It actually got worse. The guy started visiting her at home. She lives with her parents, so they would sit outside together, something I could clearly see.
Eventually, I decided to confront the guy and ask what was going on. That’s when I found out he had been dating my woman for two years! I had only been with her for four months, and she told him I was just a friend. 💔
Right in front of me, she started defending him! I was madly in love with her, so letting her go wasn’t easy. I had a one-on-one talk with the guy, and he confirmed that they had been together for two years, but recently, they had issues. That’s when she met me. She told me she didn’t think he would come back to beg, and when he did, she forgave him and took him back.
I asked her if I had done anything wrong to deserve this, and she said no. I did everything for myself, cooking, cleaning, washing, and never pressured her for anything. I gave her space when she needed it, called, texted, and treated her well. She said she was just confused because she loved both of us and didn’t want to lose either one.
At that point, I decided I had to move on because I was getting hurt. I told her if she truly loved me, she should cut ties with him, but she refused. She was with him all the time. I asked her to choose, and she picked him. Yet, she wouldn’t leave me alone. She kept apologizing, but nothing changed.
I finally made up my mind to walk away, but she came begging for one last chance. I gave in because I believed no relationship was perfect, and I wanted to try again.
Just yesterday, we planned to meet and spend time together. I called, but she didn’t pick up. Since she lives close by, I decided to pass by, and boom, I caught her with the guy again.
At this point, I’m beyond heartbroken. I love this girl so much and wish she would change, but she won’t. I know I need to leave this relationship, but my heart is stuck on her.
Please, I need advice. Has anyone been in a similar situation? How do I handle this and move on? | 2025-02-06 13:23:22 | |
| Last January, on my fiancée’s birthday, she received a hamper from an unknown sender while we were together at her new apartment. A few minutes later, her phone rang. The caller? The sender of the package. And to my shock, it was her ex.
Let me paint a picture of this man.
1. He was her first real love.
2. He abused her physically for years.
3. After four years of dating, he vanished abroad without a word, lying to her that he was heading to the northern region for research and wouldn’t be reachable due to network issues.
4. He left her mentally broken, to the point where she still carries the paranoia from that relationship.
5. And the most painful part? His initials are tattooed on her lower back. When we first got together, she lied that it was in memory of her late sister. I later discovered the truth, and honestly, I hate looking at it. I can’t even enjoy certain positions because of that nonsense staring me in the face.
She acted extremely surprised when she realized the gift was from him. But three weeks later, I heard her phone ringing one evening and noticed it was a FaceTime call from him. Curiosity got the best of me, so I checked her call log. To my shock, they had been having countless back-and-forth video calls.
At that moment, my world came crashing down. How did he even get her new number? How did he find out where she lives? And why the constant contact? I’ve kept all these questions to myself because I know she’s a professional liar.
I won’t lie to you. I am filled with rag£. If I don’t get counseling soon, I might do something reckl£$s. I have sacrificed too much for this relationship to let these two f00ls break me like this. | 2025-02-06 13:19:48 | |
| Good afternoon Bro Kay, please I want someone who can interpret this dream for me or if anyone has an idea about the meaning. Last night I dreamt that a certain regional minister who is dead came to look for someone, upon showing me the picture, I realized that I didn’t know the person so I told him. Fast forward he started forcing himself on me which in defense, I hit him with something which resulted in his death. In the dream, I saw his ghost appearing to me in the mirror in my room. He started hunting me. I then began to run away but I realized that our gate was locked. I began to pray to God and then I saw that the gate has opened. When I was running, I saw that the ghost was still chasing me this time around, he was flying. I also saw myself flying very far and higher ahead of him. Then a voice told me that a certain pastor is preaching at the other side of the junction so I should seek help from him. When I went there, the pastor prayed for me and all sudden I saw a number of people lined up and was passing by. The pastor then told me that all these people are dead so I should the word” disagreement”when they are coming near me.When I shouted the word, all of them started vanishing. Then I woke up suddenly with my stomach aching me. Please what does this dream mean | 2025-02-01 14:54:25 | |
| "My Husband Came To My Office Unannounced Today, And Asked Me To Tell My Secretary Not To Allow Anyone In From 1:30 PM To 2:30 PM.
I Thought He Wanted To Talk About Something Important, But No, He Wanted Sex.
I Told Him It Was My Working Hours And That, I Couldn't.
He Got Pissed And Tried Forcing Himself On Me. I Screamed For Help.
I Give Him Sex At Home When He Wants It, We Don't Have Any Real Sex Issues Pending. So I Don't Know What Exactly Came Over Him Today.
When Help Finally Entered My Office, He Was Fully Naked. He Got Dressed In Their Presence, And Then Removed His Wedding Ring And Threw It On The Floor.
He's Not Home Yet. He Has Not Called Me Since This Afternoon. What Do I Do Or Say To Him When He Returns Home?" | 2025-02-01 14:49:43 | |
| I have a personal assistant because, as the owner of a company, my responsibilities are endless. My life took an interesting turn when I decided to employ my longtime crush to fill that role. Despite being happily married and her being in a committed relationship with her boyfriend, I feel like the most fortunate boss alive.
For the past four years, we’ve been indulging in an intense, unspoken connection. We have sex indiscriminately—anytime and anywhere possible—and it has never once affected our professional relationship. If anything, it’s strengthened it. What drives me wild is that she initiates it most of the time, and her boldness turns me on in ways I never imagined.
Whenever the pressures of work weigh me down, she steps in—not just with her exceptional work ethic but with a kind of intimacy that fixes my day like nothing else can. Her ability to read my mood and bring me back to life is unmatched.
The irony is that my wife adores her. She praises her hard work and sees her as an essential part of my team. Her boyfriend, on the other hand, respects me deeply, treating me as both a role model and a mentor. Little do they know about the secret we’ve been carrying for years.
Through it all, my admiration for her has only grown. She’s not just my assistant but my escape from the chaos of life—a constant presence who keeps me grounded. I know in my heart that I could never hurt her; she’s become too integral to my world.
To you, my trusted companion—I appreciate you more than I can ever express. Thank you for being my anchor, my muse, and my greatest ally.
Life can just be simple !! | 2025-02-01 14:27:20 | |
| I am a married woman with five kids. Please there’s an issue b0thering me and would like to seek for advice. Yesterday morning my husband left our city for a business trip to Lagos. He promised to come back tomorrow. He dropped food money for me and the kids before he left. I am a fish seller, I do go to cold room to buy fish. So what happened is that this morning I went to the cold room where I usually buy fish but they said fish is not available. So I boarded a bus and went to another cold room in another part of the city very far from my area, so as I was entering the cold room I saw someone that looks like my husband coming out from a hotel about 300 feet away from the cold room . So I quickly hid myself behind the cold room fence and I brought out my phone to dial his number meanwhile I was p33ping at him from my h1id3out. Fortunately he picked the call and after exchanging greetings, I asked him where he was , he told me he’s in Lagos. I asked him when he will come back , he replied that he won’t come back again tomorrow because he has a very big business transaction that would keep him in Lagos till the next three days. He said he cannot afford to miss the big transaction. At this point I wished him a safe stay and ended the call. I quickly tapped my phone camera, zoomed it and snapped him. Within five seconds, I saw a fair beautiful lady with very b1g b@cks1de came down from a taxi and they hvgged each other t1*ghtly. It became obvious that my husband apparently came out of the hotel to lead the lady in. In no time, both of them entered into the hotel. But before they did , I snapped as many photos as I could even as I was cr¥ing silently. I waitrd for about seven hours but my hubby and the lady never came outside, so I went back home. Note I didn’t buy the fish again cos I was too sh0c*k3d, s@d and I felt b3tr@yed. I got back home some hours ago and I have not stop w0ndering why my husband is l¥ing and ch3@ting on me. Right now I feel so $hatt3red and ch3ated on and I don’t know what to do. Please I need advice on how to handle this issue. Thanks | 2025-01-30 09:33:52 | |
| For the past two months, my boyfriend and I have been staying with his mom due to some reasons. We both have our own places, but she insisted we stay with her for awhile due to certain circumstances.
I’m HIV-positive, something my boyfriend has always known. He is HIV-negative. I’m undetectable, meaning my viral load is so low that I can’t transmit the virus, even through unprotected sex. People with HIV take antiretroviral medication to suppress the virus, protect their immune system, and prevent transmission.
I’ve been HIV-positive since I was 15. I contracted it from an abusive adult who raped and manipulated me, using my status to control me. For years, I felt unworthy of love and ashamed. It took therapy and self-work to overcome that shame. I keep my status private, only sharing it with medical professionals or sexual partners. My family knows, but none of my friends do, not even my closest ones. The stigma has shaped so much of my life, keeping me in toxic relationships and making me doubt my worth.
I’ve come a long way. I’m in a healthy, loving relationship, back in school, and rebuilding my life. But now, everything feels like it’s crumbling. My boyfriend’s mom found my medication. She claims she saw a pill on the floor, went to put it in my purse, and noticed a bag with my pill bottle inside. I don’t believe her. My medication is expensive, and I’m extremely careful with it. I never just pour pills into my hand, and even if I did drop one, wouldn’t the normal response be to leave it on a counter or give it to me? Not go through my purse. I truly think she was snooping.
What’s worse is what she did next. Instead of coming to me or her son, she told his sister, who then told her husband and their other sister. Now, the entire family knows. His mom reacted with, “How could she do this to herself?” and “Was she not raised properly?” She has always been judgmental, but this is victim-blaming. She even worried that I infected her son, but he took a test in front of them, and it was negative. His sisters don’t seem to judge me, but his mom clearly does.
I feel completely violated. My privacy was invaded, my personal medical history was spread around, and now I’m being judged for something beyond my control, something I’ve handled responsibly. There’s so much trauma tied to my status, and now it feels like the control over my own story has been ripped away.
As soon as I found out what she did, I packed my things and left without saying a word to her. My boyfriend says he stood up for me, but I don’t know what to do now. His family is extremely close, they talk every day and spend a lot of time together. I can’t avoid them forever, but I don’t want to feel like “the girlfriend with HIV” every time I see them.
I’ve been crying every day, and my anxiety is through the roof. I have a virtual therapy appointment next week, so I’m hoping that will help. But right now, I don’t know where to go from here. I feel so disrespected and shattered.
What do I do? | 2025-01-30 09:29:17 | |
| I rarely have dreams, but last night was different, I had one that I just can't seem to shake off. It felt so vivid, and even though I don’t usually dwell on dreams, this one has been on my mind all day.
In the dream, I encountered a woman who handed me a loaf of bread. It felt significant, though I couldn't quite place why. The moment felt warm, almost like a blessing, as if she was giving me something of value beyond just food. Shortly after, I met an elderly man who placed three cedis in coins into my hand. There was something about his demeanor, he seemed wise, almost as if he knew something I didn’t.
Then, the most striking part of the dream happened. I saw my girlfriend, but she looked even more beautiful than I’d ever seen her before. There was a glow about her, as if she was filled with happiness and love. When she saw me, she smiled, and we embraced tightly, as if we hadn’t seen each other in a long time. There was a deep sense of comfort in that hug, like everything was exactly as it should be. After that, we began walking together, side by side, heading towards an unknown destination, but I remember feeling peaceful and content.
I know this dream might seem simple on the surface, but something about it feels deeper, like there’s a hidden meaning behind every detail. I left out some parts, but I can’t shake the feeling that this dream was trying to tell me something. Does anyone have any insight into what it might mean or it's interpretation? | 2025-01-30 09:27:23 | |
| I want to know if this is normal. I’ve been married for only three years. We have one child, he’s a little over a year old.
I don’t know the kind of connection I have with my husband but to be honest, it’s beginning to feel abnormal.
I literally feel what my husband feels and vice versa. If he has pain in his legs, I’ll feel it too. Whatever he goes through, I go through and vice versa.
This is it, one time my husband fell from the roof at work, he’s an electrician (fixes aircom and stuff but he’s got a degree too). I felt instantly like my back was broken. Minutes later when I called, I received the news that he was at the hospital. When I was in labour, he was admitted at that same hospital cuz he said his abdomen hurts. It was more like we went through postpartum together. I get electric shocks when he gets them.
When my mother died and I got the news and broke down, he called me that same instant to ask if everything was okay with me cuz he suddenly started feeling heavy and was crying without knowing why.
There are so many things I could say happens with us both at the same time. It’s not only bad stuff. We feel each other’s joy too.
Bro Kay, this isn’t a problem but sometimes one needs to be strong for the other, yet we both break down all the time.
I love him and I know he loves me as much but this mutual feeling thing seem a bit abnormal to us and we need help with it. What do we do please? | 2025-01-30 09:26:35 | |
| My guy said we should contribute to buy the items on the list for our marriage. But he said he will contribute a higher amount than me. The reply I gave him was I can help in other aspects like the food and drinks, decorations and our attires but for me to buy the things on the list that he was given is what I can’t do. Please I hope am not over reacting cos I really felt bad and am so down. | 2025-01-30 09:25:30 | |
| My husband gave me his old phone because my son broke mine. I took the phone and fix it and while looking through through the phone, I saw a shocking video. In the video, there was a woman doing something very private and asking if the person she sent it to wanted to play with snail and bwest too
The woman put a sticker on her face, but I knew who she was right away. She was the best friend of my husband's mother ( mother-in-law's best friend) . I saw that the video was sent through WhatsApp. I also found some nü.d£ pictures from her in his phone. In those pictures, there was no sticker and I clearly saw her face; she is even older than my mother-in-law!
For two whole days, I cried. My heart was broken. I decided to send her a message to tell her that I knew what she was doing. The next morning, I received a package. Inside was an iPhone 14 and a lot of money, about 300,000. The woman sent me a message saying that if I stayed quiet, she would send me little gifts from time to time.
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I took the iPhone and chose to keep quiet. But now, I feel so guilty. It feels like I was bought, and since I got the new phone, I don't even care if my husband is cheating on me or not. Deep down in my heart, I feel like I almost like that woman because I am happy with the gifts.
Sometimes, when I think about all this, I feel a little disappointed in myself. I wonder if I have lost my dignity. | 2025-01-30 09:24:17 | |
| I have been dating this single mother for some years now. When we started dating, she made me understand she’s a single mother of one boy. The boys father is not in the picture and has refused to take responsibility for the boy. My girlfriend, on the other hand, is working and is able to take care of her son without bothering me for anything. I was cool with it and didn’t think much of it. Besides, i was young and didn’t really understand the implications of certain things. As the years went by, our love grew so as the son. All these times, this lady has really held me down. Now the issue is, we’re finally married, and i feel that when his son is of age, her attention will be switched to the boy. We have two girls together in addition to her son. I’ve been working as an expatriate in Mali, so after our marriage, she has been living together with the children in her brother’s house with her mother. My contract in Mali is now over, and I’m coming back to Ghana at the end of the month. I was able to build a 2 unit of a 3- bedroom house here in Ghana, and my plan is to rent out the other flat and stay in one flat with my family, but i don’t want the son around. I can support her in taking care of him, i have no issues with that, but i just don’tc want him around. This boy has shown me characteristics of some rebellion traits in him, and i don’t want any of that in the future. I haven’t told the mother yet and am looking for ways to make her understand. I have no issues with her son, but i just don’t want him in my house. He can visit on weekends and holidays, but i just don’t want him around | 2025-01-30 09:22:29 | |
| My husband got caught—he’s dating our neighbour's daughter. According to him, the girl told him she was 21, which is why he agreed to date her. However, the girl’s parents claim she is only 15. Neighbours familiar with the girl’s background say she’s 16.
I didn’t hear about this issue until money was mentioned. The neighbour is demanding GHC20,000 from my husband; otherwise, he’ll report the matter to the police. A neighbourhood committee was set up to negotiate the amount. My husband offered GHC5,000, but the girl’s father is adamant about receiving the full GHC20,000.
One of the committee members informed me about the situation, and I felt deeply embarrassed. It was like walking through the neighborhood unaware that I was exposed. When I confronted my husband, he confessed and apologized. Right now, I’m unsure whether I’ve forgiven him or not, but I’m more concerned about the money being demanded.
Neither of us has that kind of money, and taking a loan to settle such nonsense is out of the question. I’ve decided to let him handle this issue on his own because I wasn’t there when he was “enjoying” with a minor.
He’s constantly frustrated and miserable, leaving home at dawn and returning late at night, as if running from his own shadow. I know the girl’s father fairly well. While we’re not close, I believe he would listen if I spoke to him or brought a delegation to plead for a reduced amount.
I want this problem resolved so I can focus on dealing with my husband. We haven’t had a meaningful conversation about the incident, and the longer this drags on, the deeper my hurt grows.
But I’m torn. How will the community see me if I get involved? And how will my husband view me if he thinks I’m supporting him? I don’t want to give the wrong impression, yet I need this issue resolved so we can start addressing the festering wound in our relationship.
Where do I go from here—left or right? | 2025-01-29 11:38:49 | |
| 💔😭 MY WIFE HAS MADE A BIG PORTRAIT 🖼️ OF MY SIDE CHICK AND PLACED IT IN OUR SITTING ROOM 💔😭
Good morning
I cheated on her, and I don't even know if she knows. I came home yesterday from a business trip, and I found a big photo of my side chick in my living room. She made a huge portrait. Since yesterday, my mind has been racing, and my heart is beating too fast. 😣💔
My wife even put that picture as her profile on WhatsApp. She didn't argue with me at all; she welcomed me back like nothing happened. But inside, I am not at peace. Should I ask her about the picture? I have no idea how she found out! 😨🤔
I feel scared and alone in my own home. Its the first time I have ever cheated on her, and now I am full of worry. I don't know if she plans to hurt me. 😭💔
Last night, I hid all the kn!v£s in the house. I am living in fear. Please, I need help! | 2025-01-29 11:13:07 | |
| My husband d!ed in a car acc!dènt but the family kept it from me and replaced him with his twin brother.
I lived with my husband's twin brother as a couple for 3 months before I realized that he wasn't my husband.
This is what really happened;
Three months ago, my husband and his Co-workers went for a seminar in Maryland, he told me that they would spend three weeks but my husband was back in 5 days time.
I was confused, so I asked him why and he said he came back on time because he missed me and they weren't doing anything serious at the Seminar.
I was surprised.
I know my husband.
My husband was a workaholic and would never leave seminars until it was over. But I looked over it.
We continued as married couples but he was acting strange, he was totally different. My husband liked cold tea but this one prefers hot tea. My husband does not eat semo but this one does.
It went on and on.
And strange things were happening in the house. Sometimes the candles would go off and at times we would hear someone bathing in the bathroom.
I realized the truth the day I wanted to massage his back. My husband and I got matching tattoos at our back without telling anyone. That was when I knew and I went crazy.
The family told me the truth but now, I am an heart attack patient. | 2025-01-29 11:09:47 | |
| The first time I got into his car, he opened the door for me. I sat down, and then he closed the door and walked to his side of the car. I was impressed. It had never happened to me before. I even joked about it, and he asked, "When you take trotro, doesn't the driver's mate open the door for you?"
Weeks later, he proposed, and I asked him to give me some time. By that time, he had already stopped opening doors for me. I joked, "I haven't even accepted your proposal, but you've stopped opening doors for me. I can't imagine the next thing you'll stop doing when I finally accept your proposal."
It was just a joke, but he didn’t laugh. I also didn’t think the joke struck a wrong chord. But he went cold. He stopped calling and texting as much. I asked him what the problem was, and he told me, "I’ve withdrawn my proposal. If you really loved me, it shouldn’t take this long. And that statement you made (referring to the joke) shows the kind of woman I’m dealing with. I can’t open doors for the rest of my life."
He has left me.
Why am I saying he has left me? The relationship didn’t even start. Yes, I had accepted the proposal in my heart, but I was trying to read the unwritten words, see the devil in the details, and notice the things hidden in plain sight before saying yes out loud. Just when I thought he was OK, he dropped me. He took back his proposal and didn’t even think of keeping me as a friend mpo.
Now, when he sees me going left, he passes right. I thought I was just joking ooo, now look at me. I’ve lost a boyfriend. Not only that, I was saving a little money because he used to give me lifts from time to time. I’ve lost that one too. Me and my big mouth. | 2025-01-29 11:07:05 | |
| I often see my dad’s car on campus, sometimes at ungodly hours. He’s not coming to see me. There’s a hostel he goes to. I know the girl he visits; I just haven’t spoken to her. I was so sure my dad was dating the girl until I discussed it with my roommate, who asked me, “What if she’s his daughter? Have you thought about that?”
Now I don’t know which is worse: my dad dating her or her being my sister. I can’t talk to him about it because he’s not the kind of dad who’s receptive to his daughter’s opinions. If he finds out I know about it and it somehow gets to my mom, I’m dead. But anytime I see his car around campus, I feel like doing something to myself. I feel like I’m betraying my mom.
I want to tell someone about it, but who? Mom? Or mom, since dad is out of the question. What should I do? | 2025-01-29 10:58:25 | |
| About three years or more I noticed that whenever I'm in the toilet or having my bath my inlaw will find one way to peep or come inside without knocking the door.
So I told my sister about what her husband has been doing. She did not believe me. Rather she went to my inlaw and told him everything I said. Since then my inlaw has been ha"ra"ssing me. One night he came inside my room and pinned himself on me. I couldn't resist him I had to let him because if I tell my sister again she will throw me out as she said. It's now a constant thing and I seems to enjoy every bit. Since he started giving me money he no longer stays outside as he used to.. He would come back early and pretend to go to bed then when his wife is asleep he would sneak inside my room and pin till 5 am.
Sis sometimes I feel bad. Getting to three years now and my sis never one day notice anything. Been pregnant thrice, one came out on it own the other I abo****rted which he's aware. My sister has given birth to three children. I love them but because of how things are now with me and their dad most times I wish I can have a child for him also.
I tried helping the situation but my sis turned against me. She even said I don't want to assist her and her children that's why I'm cooking up a story that she has been there for me now it's my turn I'm cooking stories. My inlaw told me he has stopped seeing any woman outside, that I'm the only woman he have. I don't think he and my sis are sleeping together because he doesn't even sleep with her. Days he's not on me he's on the Couch. Is this really my fault?
I plan on leaving their house but it will be on settlement which he has refused to. I want him to settle me with 5 million. He monitors me and doesn't let me have a boyfriend. So he must settle me before I walk out quietly out of their lives. We listen, we do not judge. | 2025-01-29 10:55:33 | |
| My husband was married once before me. She was his high school sweetheart. They started dating in JHS, survived long distance during SHS and university, and got married when they were both 25. Very shortly after getting married, she passed away unexpectedly at age 26 from aneurism and it obviously devastated him, especially because they were extremely young. They never had children.
He contemplated remarrying because he was so heartbroken but we ended up meeting about five years after that. We got married when I was 29 and he was 30 and have two children now.
Last night, we were at a friend’s gathering. Everything was going well until one of our friends brought up a new topic that had to do with relationships. She is newly divorced. Others were chiming in with past relationships from high school, college, etc. I had said I never thought I would get married because my luck with men was terrible until I met my husband and I said I felt very lucky to have met him.
After a little while longer, my husband brings up his deceased wife. Everyone knows he was married before me and that she passed. He was talking about her and then drops a bomb and goes “If she walked through that front door right now, I’d pick up where we left off, she’s the best and would remain the best I’ve ever had”.
Honestly, it felt like someone
put my heart into a blender and punched me in the gut as hard as they could. Everyone in the room could sense the awkwardness that followed. To avoid making a scene, I just laughed it off, even though I think it was still obvious that he hurt me.
I just felt that, if you still felt that way, then why are we married? I’ve never asked him to get over his wife. I have never had a deceased spouse or even a deceased partner, so I am unsure how that feels. But I would never SAY that in front of my new spouse. After the gathering, we left and I did not speak to him the entire car ride home or barely the entire night. I did tell him that what he said hurt my feelings deeply and that we could talk in the morning once I’ve calmed down, because I didn’t want to say anything mean to him.It’s been three days and he hasn’t said anything about the topic. He’s just pretending not to see that I’m hurting and need an apology or something.
What do I do? | 2025-01-29 10:53:45 | |
| I have a four-year-old daughter, which he told me wasn’t a problem right from the start.
A year later, he asked me, “Are you sure her dad wouldn’t be a problem?”
We had dated for over a year, but my daughter’s dad hadn’t been in the picture. He abandoned us during my pregnancy. My child was a year old when he traveled abroad, and he still hadn’t bothered. I don’t call him, and his family doesn’t have anything to do with us. It has always been me minding my business. I have a job, and what I get is enough to keep us going. He knows all that.
Two years after dating, he came back again: “So, when we marry, where’s your child going to be?”
This question threw me off balance, but I stayed calm and asked, “What do you suggest? If you don’t want her with us, my mom is there. She has always wanted me to send her over.”
He told me he wasn’t thinking about anything but wanted to be sure about our future first. Three years into our dating, he asked: “Are you sure you won’t run to your baby father if he comes right now?”
This one got me angry, so I reacted. I told him I was not forcing him to marry me if he didn’t want to. The questions were becoming too much and unnecessary. And the annoying part was, he wouldn’t say anything after my answer.
I’m a year older than him. It has never come up or been a problem until recently. We had a misunderstanding and argued. He told me, “You see what I hate about you? You think you’re older than me, so you never listen. Do you think any man in my shoes would marry a woman like you?”
To me, that was the final straw. I asked him to stay away from me and my daughter because his inconsistencies were rubbing me the wrong way. To me, it was over, and I wanted to move on.
Days later, he came back. He went to my daughter’s school, picked her up after closing, and came home with her. He said, “I don’t want to do life without you. Pardon my wrongs and forgive me. I’m ready.”
Looking at these series of inconsistencies, do you believe a man like this is worth the time and effort? He’s helpful when he’s not doubtful. He’s loving when he wants to be, but he acts like he’s not in charge of his thoughts. | 2025-01-28 14:28:38 | |
| I don’t know if you remember me sir, I’m the guy that said I transferred over Ghc 650,000 from my sick father’s account because I was scared he wouldn’t leave me much.
After sharing my story that day, I felt bad. I saw a reason to return the money but I really didn’t want to be seen as a bad person. I didn’t think my father would forgive me and I was ashamed, I couldn’t return it.
Unfortunately, my father’s condition worsened as he thought more of the money everyday. My elderly siblings stepped in but the bank said they couldn’t help.
Unfortunately I lost my father later last month, same December. May he rest in peace.
I’ve really not been myself ever since, especially because some people said it was important for me to return the money else I wouldn’t know peace after his demise. I haven’t felt anything though, I’m okay and there’s nothing like his ghost tormenting me.
His funeral is this weekend, someone said Ghosts don’t attack until they’re buried, I don’t know how true but that’s my only worry now.
I haven’t used the money like I said. It’s there, I’ve safely hidden it. If everything goes well, I’ll establish myself with it and ignore my brothers but if he starts to torment me, I’ll go and leave the money on his grave and run away.
I really wanted to return it as I felt bad after reading the comments on that day but the shame was too much. Now I feel like I’m the cause of my father’s situation but I have the money intact. | 2025-01-28 14:22:07 | |
| I’m a new mom, my baby is barely four months old.
One problem I’ve had since I had this baby till now is my husband drinking his expressed breast milk.
We both are busy parents so I express and keep it in the fridge to make life a bit easier for me but anytime it’s time and I go looking for it, it’s never there, my husband has drank it. When this started, he wouldn’t admit he drank it. I always blamed my sister who comes around until I saw my husband drinking it myself. Then he said he wasn’t going to do it again but he’s still doing it.
Now when I go and it’s missing, he would say he fed it to the baby.m, next minute baby is crying for food. He’s not even ashamed.
Some time last week I was going to the market so I expressed enough into the fridge for my sister to feed the baby with, when it was time to feed him, she couldn’t find the milk.
I had to return home in a rush to feed the baby. My husband drank the milk and left home afterwards.
I’ll be resuming work next month. I would be expressing more for him while I’m away but with this habit of my husband, I’m so scared. I may always find myself rushing home after work cuz he would drink the milk without sympathy for his own child.
Please, am I the only one experiencing this or other moms are and how do I get him under control before resuming work? I really need help please 😭😭😭.No amount of promises he makes to stop works. He always goes back to doing it. | 2025-01-28 09:59:42 | |
| .I travelled abroad some years ago,I met a lady in one of our WhatsApp groups that we became friends.We started dating from there,I’ve loved this girl so much that it took me a year to come down to Ghana to meet her,infact she’s an amazing person.My problem here is I wanted to start a business so she brought up the idea of buying a tricycle.I sent the money to her to buy it and truthfully she bought it for her younger brother because I don’t have any one to give to,so I wanted him to use it for a year so I can sell it after.I came to Ghana and asked her to call the brother to bring my money to me so we can sell it,bro Kay to my surprise the guy said there’s not even a penny coz he has been having issues with the engine all this while so he has used the little amount he had to fix those problems.So I asked my gf whether she’s aware she said no.Bro Kay,I got nothing from the tricycle for a year now,I therefore sent my gf to go and check it for me in their hometown. Lo and behold the tricycle has been with the mechanic for more than 5months without informing me or his sister.Now my question,how do I handle this,because I came down with the intention of getting married to this girl but as it stands now I’m so angry with all the family. Should I take my money from my gf or what do I do?? | 2025-01-28 09:58:21 | |
| My wife has this habit of calling me names when we’re quarreling but one thing she keeps saying that bothers me is, she always says I’m not a man. In every argument, she’ll say to me that I’m not a man. She’ll say, God created men and just added me to them to make us many. She’ll say things like, she wonders what she saw in me. Sometimes she’ll go as far as saying she’s just enduring me that she wishes she married a real man.
These words from her get me worried. I’m doing everything I can to support her but she uses these words to make me feel less of myself. She even said once in front of my brother and a friend that she doesn’t see me as a man so they shouldn’t involve me in a men’s conversation. | 2025-01-28 09:57:12 | |
| my husband is cheating with another married woman. The woman has a child and from the messages I read, the child belongs to my husband because the woman keeps talking about sending money for the child and saying she’d be in trouble if her husband ever finds out. She said she’ll be shamed and her marriage would be destroyed but my husband, being a man won’t have any issues so she keeps complaining that she wants them to end what they have but my husband in the text keeps encouraging them to continue. He is using the fact that the lady loves him deeply to keep forcing the lady to be with him. The woman too keeps complaining but hasn’t left. I don’t know how long they’ve been doing this but it’s certainly been long enough that they have a child together.
I haven’t mentioned the fact that I saw the messages to my husband yet. I am still considering what to do. I wanted to go and inform the woman’s husband so she loses her marriage like she’s always been scared to but I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do. Especially because I’m not leaving my husband. I may pay him back by cheating too but I won’t leave this marriage. At least, he does his duties as a man well. There’s no perfect man out there.
Just that I’ve seen that he loves this woman and I’ve to find a way to remove her from his life. (Join us on IG: Loveandpillsgh)
I am not happy with my decision but she’s married and should focus on her own marriage as well. Even if she loves my husband, shouldn’t her marriage be equally important to her enough not to have kids with another man’s husband?? Bro Kwaku, please would I be right to expose her and end their secret affair? I want to know before I confront my husband and as for him, I sw£ar I’m going to do same to him. | 2025-01-28 09:55:33 | |
| I have made a very big mistake. Three years ago, my friend conducted a DNA test on all of his kids and figured the first child wasn’t his. This led to him divorcing his partner of seventeen years in marriage. We married the same year so my marriage is twenty years now. After my friend’s encounter, I began to think of my own marriage, what if my kids are not mine? I observed my children instead of conducting a DNA too because my wife threatened to divorce me if I should conduct a DNA test and find out the kids are all mine. She sounded so convincing so I decided not to bring any confusion into my home due to a friend’s encounter. For a while I had it on mind but after about a year, it didn’t even occur to me anymore.
Later last year, I traveled to India for a medical check-up. In a conversation with my doctor, the issue of DNA popped up and he said I could conduct a DNA on my kids without my wife’s knowledge so why do I even discuss it with her for us to argue? I thought of it as the best idea so I gathered samples of my kids’ hair (we have 4 kids) when I came back. I told my wife I was asked to return after a month for check-up again so a week today, I came back to India to see my doctor.
He conducted the test and unlike my friend my case is worst. Can you believe that with the exception of our last baby boy who is eleven years old, all the other kids are not mine? The child I thought was my first will turn twenty this year and the second will also turn eighteen this year. They are both studying in Canada while the last two are in Ghana with us. I have a very happy and successful family. I trusted and loved my wife and I wish the DNA test didn’t come out like this. I haven’t returned to Ghana yet sir, I haven’t contacted home or said anything about the test results to anyone yet. It’s so painful. There’s no day in this week I haven’t cried. My life right now is a misery. I don’t even know how to go and face my wife with this. I don’t know how to handle it. I don’t know how my entire family members, friends and society are going to start looking at my family. My happy home is a wrecked one now. I am scared I might just k!|| my wife if I should see her face again. I haven’t been in this type of pain before. This is definitely the worst thing to ever happen to me in life and even after my d£athh. How on earth is my last child my first and only child? I love my kids; I have equally apportioned everything I have to them. Is my wife trying to tell me that if I hadn’t conducted this test, I will d!£ without knowing the truth? I don’t even know what questions to ask myself.
I need your opinion before this gets bloody. I am still here in India because I want to take it cool when I get back home but it doesn’t matter how long I stay here. The pain is still fresh daily. I just want to go home, ask her to park out, empty her kids account so she continues to finance their education herself or with their father whom I don’t wish to know then move out of Ghana with my son, my only son. Sir, do you know this means I have just one child now? I have wasted twenty years of my life with the wrong woman. The passion with which I hate my wife now, I see myself str@ng|!ng her to d£atth. See, I can k!|| her and no one on this earth can do a thing about it. If I reach home and she tries to drag this with me, her next words will be in the gr@ve.
This is a woman I met with absolutely nothing. I married her when she was only twenty-three years old. I groomed her. I made her what she is today. She was a mere high school graduate with nothing to call hers. I was managing my own micro finance business by then. I sent her to school, I built her a mart. I did everything for her. Today, she has cars, built houses for herself and some members of her family. I have never for once envied her success because that was how well I wanted to see her grow. All those times I was trying so hard to build an empire for her, there was another cockroach hitting on her. I was too blind to have noticed. Women are indeed w!c|<ed. If any prophet should have given me this prophecy, I would have beaten him up. How do I even tell my friends about this? What a shame this is. (Join us on IG: Loveandpillsgh)
I am writing a lot; I don’t know how to make you understand what I am going through but I need your help. I seriously need help. I can’t imagine myself with just one child at age 50. All the sweet memories I was having with my kids was actually not with my kids. It was with another bull’s children. How? How could this happen to me? Why did I even listen to her when she asked me not to conduct the test? I should have realized it, my friend even asked me to conduct mine when he figured his out but I told him I trusted my wife. The kind of shame this woman has brought to me is probably what will k!|| me. Just call my number let’s talk about this before I come | 2025-01-28 09:54:15 | |
| This story happened one fateful Saturday. I woke up with the energy of a man who knew he was about to eat a royal meal. My girlfriend, Chiamaka, had promised to come over and cook egusi soup for me. I had prepared everything the day before egusi, ugu leaves, palm oil, goat meat, stockfish, seasoning cubes, the works. Even the crayfish was premium, the type that slaps your nose with its aroma before you even open the container.
The plan was simple: Chiamaka would arrive by 11 a.m., and I’d relax while she worked her magic in the kitchen. By 10:30 a.m., I had already tidied the house, arranged the ingredients on the kitchen counter, and even sprayed air freshener in the living room for extra effect. I sat down like a king waiting for his queen. But as 11 a.m. came and went, there was no sign of Chiamaka. No call, no text. Nothing.
At 12:30 p.m., my stomach started making noises that could wake a sleeping child. It sounded like a broken generator. I decided to call her, and after a few rings, she picked up.
“Baby, I’m so sorry o,” she started, with her signature soft voice. “My sister Blessing borrowed my shoes, and I can’t find another pair to wear. I’ll try to come soon.”
Shoes? Shoes were the reason my stomach was protesting? I told her to borrow slippers from her neighbor, but she said, “It doesn’t match my outfit.” At that moment, I realized I was on my own.
By 1 p.m., I had made peace with the fact that Chiamaka wasn’t coming. My options were clear: starve, order food online, or cook the egusi soup myself. Starving wasn’t an option; I wasn’t ready to die for love. Ordering food was tempting, but my wallet screamed louder than my stomach. Cooking seemed like the only way out. How hard could it be to make egusi soup? After all, I had watched Chiamaka do it before.
I grabbed my phone and searched “How to cook egusi soup” on YouTube. That was my first mistake. There were too many videos, each with a different method. One said to fry the egusi, another said to boil it, and one aunty on YouTube added onions to her egusi. Onions? In egusi? I was already confused, but hunger doesn’t give room for overthinking.
I decided to freestyle. I boiled the goat meat and stockfish with seasoning cubes, salt, and onions. That part was easy; I even nodded to myself, thinking, “Chef Henry in the making.” Then came the egusi. I mixed it with water and poured it into the pot. At first, it looked okay, but within minutes, it started clumping together like lumps of fufu. Panic set in. I added more water, thinking it would loosen up, but it only got worse.
I reached for the palm oil and poured it into the pot, hoping it would save the day. Instead, the oil floated on top like a stubborn river that refused to mix. My kitchen looked like a crime scene, and I was the criminal.
In my desperation, I added the ugu leaves and crayfish, hoping to distract from the disaster. But as I stirred the pot, my eyes started burning. That’s when I realized I’d accidentally spilled a whole container of ground pepper into the soup. I coughed so much that my neighbor, Mama Nkechi, shouted from her window, “Henry! Are you okay? Should I call an ambulance?”
“Ah, no, ma! I’m fine!” I lied, wiping tears from my eyes.
By the time I finished, it was 4 p.m. The soup looked like a science experiment gone wrong. It smelled like egusi but tasted like a mixture of regret and burnt dreams. I boiled another batch of yam, sat down, and ate it anyway. Hunger doesn’t care about taste.
At 6 p.m., Chiamaka finally showed up, smiling like someone who had no idea what I’d been through. “Baby, I’m so sorry. Traffic was bad,” she said, leaning in for a hug.
“You finally came,” I replied with a forced smile.
“You cooked?” she asked, sniffing the air.
I showed her the pot. She stared at it for a long time, then turned to me with a straight face and said, “Baby, is this soup or revenge?”
We both burst out laughing, and just like that, all my anger disappeared. She promised to cook for me the next day, and I made her swear on her favorite shoes . | 2025-01-28 09:53:09 | |
| My wife and I had a fight yesterday. It was a serious one. The first of it kind. I usually do not talk much, or exchange words, but yesterday, I was like a barking bull dog. I was giving her word for word, and sending my words in such a way that it stung her heart like a bee.
At a point, my wife broke down in tears and started shouting and crying like a mad dog. I simply wore my cloth so I could leave the house and go where I could have peace of mind. But she chased me to the sitting room with a bowl of water and emptied it on me.
My anger boiled. I was soaked to my pants. I ran after her and she fell on the cushion. For the first time in my life, I raised my hands to slap her. She folded herself like a snake and shielded her face in fear.
Then I stopped.
I took in a deep breath and exhaled. I left her in the sitting room and walked back into the bedroom to change.
My wife was shocked. While I walked out of the house, she sat like a log of wood, frozen to her feet. She had never seen me raise my hands in an attempt to hit her before. This was the first time.
I felt guilty at some point. I felt guilty for attempting to hit my wife with my hands. I was restless. This was something I had never done before; not to her, or to the rest of my wives
That evening, while returning home, I stopped and bought her a bouquet of flower and chocolates from a shop. When I got home, she was not sitting in the sitting room as she usually does.
I knew she was upset. She would always run to welcome me the moment she hears me drive in. But that day, the door was left open for me.
My dinner was at the dinning table as usual... i dropped the flower and chocolates on the dinning and walked into the bedroom in search of her. When I got into the bedroom, I found my wife on her both knees holding an apology card in her hands. She had written and placed a cardboard on the wall which read "PLEASE FORGIVE ME BABY."
I gazed around the beautiful design and decorations in the room. As an event planner that she was, I could tell that this was a perfectly planned apology. The soft solo music that played, made my heart melt like an ice dipped in hot water.
"I am sorry, I pushed you too far." She said.
I walked to my wife and lifted her off the ground. I kissed and embraced her. I led her to the dining and handed her the flower and chocolates I had gotten her.
"I am sorry for everything."
My wife smiled. We embraced ourselves, and that evening it was like our romance was kindled back. We found ourselves chasing each other like puppies round the house.
While I went to bed that night, I asked myself. Will the result had been the same if I had lost my temper and beaten my wife blue and black?
Definitely not.
As a man, your ability to control your emotions at the highest peak, even when you've been pushed to the wall, shows your ability to handle certain circumstances tactfully when they arrive.
Just like my father will always say, any man who can handle a woman, make her happy, and still be happy himself, can handle any problem in life. | 2025-01-28 09:52:28 | |
| My wife is a very loving and forgiving woman. She knows about my cheating habit and she has never bantered words with me.
At a point i got scared. I needed her to say something but she wouldn't.
One faithful day, she returned from work unexpectedly. Honestly, it wasn't her usual time of coming back home. She came home and caught me in the act of sleeping with her best friend on our matrimonal bed. I expected the worst from her, but she didn't say a word neither did she do anything.
She quietly walked outside waiting for us to finish. Out of fear i chased the young lady out. I was expecting my wife to beat her up but she didn't. Instead, when the lady left my wife walked into the kitchen to prepare dinner for me.
"Honey your food is ready." She informed like nothing happened. I was skeptical about eating the food.
"What if she poisoned it?" I thought.
"Honey you need to eat now before the food gets cold." She persuaded. ( Story is originally from Darkk wilson Ii, inase it was copied and posted in another page )
She saw how reluctant i was about eating her food.
I was already sitting on the dinning table, but i refused to eat. "I'm not hungry," i stuttered.
She took my food and ate few spoons from it, maybe she knew what was going on in my mind.
"Now eat your food." She blurted.
I held the spoon with my shaky hand, and managed to eat. Truly the food wasn't poisoned.
I was afraid to sleep at night because i feared that my wife would kill me. I slept with one eye opened. When i woke up in the morning, i was shocked. "She didn't kill me," i thought.
"Sweetheart, good morning." She greeted.
"Honey, don't you think you need to punish me?" i opened up to her.
"For what?" she asked applying powder on her face.
"I'm late for work, your breakfast is on the dinning table. I'm off." she said as she kissed me and walked away.
I was left in shock, and couldn't utter a word. I walked to the dinning too see the food. I fed our dog with part of the food and our dog didn't die, so i ate the food.
This woman is dying in silence. | 2025-01-28 09:49:34 | |
| Hmmm. While some people are enjoying their marriages, some of us are just enduring ours. My wife and I are both public sector workers. She has that mind set that, a man must provide so even on my hospital bed, she'll take money from me to buy me food and medications at the hospital(This happened on two occasions). Her attitude towards money is something else. My fear is that what happens if I'm not able to provide all that I'm doing now? After realizing how she is, I've decided to be saving money to save myself in case of emergencies. By the grace of God, I've been able to save 30,000 Ghana cedis and used it for T-bills. I've decided not to tell her about this knowing how she is towards money but all our 2 kids are very young too. My fear is that, what happens to this money in case I'm no more? Should I rather tell my siblings about it?
Just last month, I told her to do only food budget for the home and she said it'll cost 2,800 cedis(excluding all bills) so I told her to support with 800 cedis so that I'll handle the rest. She's now going around telling people that I'm sharing bills with her. I earn 4,000 Ghana cedis and she earns 3,000 Ghana cedis. This Christmas, we visited her parents and when we were leaving, I gave them 2,000 cedis as a Christmas gift. When we came back, instead of her appreciating what I did for her own parents, she was rather telling me about her friend who got married last month that, her friend said her husband bought items worth 5,000 for her mum as a Christmas gift. My wife went ahead to say that "some men are trying oo". Immediately she said that, my BP went up but I tried and kept it cool. This is a wife who has never given money or any gift for my own parents saying this.
I think my mistake is that, I didn't take enough time to study her before marrying her. I married her just after 5 months of meeting her. I don't want to regret but I think I'm already tired after 6 yrs of marriage. | 2025-01-28 09:44:07 | |
| My colleague at work is getting married to a hook up girl in Accra and I don’t know whether to tell him or let things be.
Since I got the invite this afternoon, I’ve known no peace because I’ve patronized that particular lady countless times.
What should I do? My colleague is a serious crife and always doing morning devotion in the office. | 2025-01-28 09:43:11 | |
| I'm a single mother of two, working as a nurse at a district hospital in Ghana. I've recently been offered a non-nursing job with better pay and have stopped reporting to work since last week. I'm aware that this may lead to my removal from the payroll and termination of salary validation.
Could you please advise me on the necessary steps to take to ensure a smooth transition and potential return to the Ghana Health Services in the future, considering my nursing certificate is still valid? A friend suggested submitting a resignation letter, but I'd like to explore other options. | 2025-01-28 09:40:25 | |
| Please I want to ask if the married men here experienced this same attitude in their women before they got married or that's how my woman is. We are getting married, God willing, February 2025. But her ego and pride are too much for me to carry that I can't even adjust to it. As if she is doing me a favour getting married to me. I started seeing this after she accepted my marriage proposal. I'm working in Accra and she is in Kumasi. She can get angry at me for correcting her mistakes and ignore me for about 2 weeks. I have to send series of apologies before she starts talking to me. Meanwhile, this whole marriage thing is on me because she's a graduate nurse waiting to be posted probably next year. Is this a sign that, she's going to control me in the marriage? | 2025-01-28 09:38:21 | |
| I love you | 2025-01-16 10:46:13 | |